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A 14 year old girl likes an 18-19 year old. Is this a bad idea or is age just a number?

Is this pushing the limit of legal laws?

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It's illegal and if I was 15 and found out my gf dated a man I would think twice about being with her

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I believe that's illegal in almost every state

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There is no law about dating, you could be 4 and date a 67 year old.

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no offence but that is discusting (and i know it's an example but still)
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yes depending on what you do i think but then again dont ask me cause i make horrible choices

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it's illegal, and yea age is just a number but they need to wait until she is old enough

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im not sure, but 4 years does not seem that bad, I mean young women marry older men don't they?

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No not really and if they do it's a bad idea
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That's a bad idea. Other than the obvious thing that's bad about relationships like that, Just what does a 19 year old have in common with a 14 year old?

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Age IS just a number but the 18 yr. old can get locked up for it

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A 14 year old looking for a 18 (and up) BF is asking (no, really pleading) for him to be locked up. With a record as a pedophile.

A 14 yr old who does this has serious maturity (actually IMmaturity) issues.

A 14 year old who does this will probably be prego within 6 months.

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does this involve porn? jk im 14 too. and no love doesnt care :)

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It's Illegal people can get locked up for dating someone younger than them...

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Uh, dating a younger person is not illegal. However the original question - oh yeah, illegal if they have sex. It's called statutory rape. Just dating a younger person is not illegal. I am not an attorney but just saying..
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Bad and illegal. The 14 yr old should wait till their 18

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Illegal and weird! The saying: in love age is just a number applies as long as both parties are over 18 or both under 18.

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Statutory rape if they have sex

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is bad specialy for the boy its a minimum of 3 years in prison n a fillony or a strike plus u will be register as a child molester u won't be allowed to be close to any children for life even ur own kids so boy this is only half of what would happen n let's not forget employment people won't hire u. boy!!!!!! between u n me take it on someones pix in the bathroom n forget about the little girl.

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Ten years from now it won't matter. Right now: Very Bad Idea.

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In general not a good idea, at 14 you are still a kid, at 19 you are an adult. For dating it is not illegal. Sex on the other hand has the 19 year old charged with sexual misconduct and registering as a sex offender for the rest of their life. It affects where you can live, and if you can be around kids unsupervised.

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Simple.
He is legal.
She is not.
Very bad idea.

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Bad idea....

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Really, really bad idea.

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That would be babysitting.

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Lol, I thought that too.
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No, age is a word...

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I think that due to rapid rate differences in which girls and boys mature that there is definitely a problem here. Wait until you are 16-18 then the gap wont be so much different as well as illegal!

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It is illegal if the parents don't approve of it. IF they do, then it is not until they do something stupid like want to have sex before marriage.

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If you both are ready to have fun that is not a illegal thing you can no issues in that. Take Angelina Jolie as example she lost her virginity at the age of 12 years old. Nothing wrong in that proceed.............:)

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Sex between a 18 year old and 14 year old is not statutory rape! It's considered child molestation. Child endangerment. And a laundry list of more charges. If the 18 year old is even thinking about it. He or she needs serious help

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Totally illegal. Also, the guy is a freak if he can't find someone his own age and is into little girls.

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