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How do you ask out a girl without sounding pathetic?

I'm in 8th grade and I have a crush on a 7th grader. I only see her 1st hour and at lunch I barely know her. I'm also to much of a wus to talk to her. I'm all paranoid,over reacting and almost had a panic attack school. Please help

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If you are scared to ask her out, then perhaps you are not ready for something like that.

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Make sure she doesn't have a bf yet. gl kid.

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How are you going to date if your to afraid to talk . Just muster up the courage and talk , get to know her . Don't get all into her if you two aren't dating . Think with your head my friend.

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first YOU have to make the first and maybe second move whether you like it or not. get to know her first, be there for her, and give her advice when needed. if she is your type after a couple weeks of being her best friend, Ask her out when no ones around. Your nervousness will calm down if no one is watching. Just say "will you go out with me and she'll give her answer (:

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But I dunno when to say it cause I barely see her
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If you really want to just go "Hey wanna go to a movie sometime or something?"

An older boy just randomly asking her out will make her quite happy and she'll likely say yes.

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Ask her on a date them during the date compliment her then bring her home and impregnate her then you'll be together forever

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I am a 7th grade girl myself. What I see is a boy who hasn't talked to a girl only sees her every so often at lunch. This situation requires YOU to start practicing and get stronger and better at talking to people. What I say is speak once in front of a crowd and you have no worries with a crush. But that has only worked with me who knows for you. But yes once you are able to talk go up to her and solcialize become her friend then you can ask her to hang with you sometime

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Talk to her more and hang out after school and stuff then ask her out when she seems to like you

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Don't ambush her right away with a date request. Say something to her one day. If you are funny... Even better. Make eye contact with her the next day and smile. Skip a day. Then say something again. If you have enough nerve, sit next to her in class or at her table at lunch.

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If you don't see her often or for long slip her a note as you pass by.
If she is interested she will pass one back to you.
If not then you have your answer.
Start with that and go on from there.
But stop talking about yourself being pathetic.
You need to know God loves you and you are a worthwhile person simply because He does.

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