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okay so me and my friend Zoe went out to a party. so we had alot to drink. when we got to my apartment things got out of hand. im straight and she is les. tht was two nights ago. i dont kno if wat we did was right.. part of me says its right. and part of me says its wrong. she called me a bunch of times. i havent answered it.. yet. i dont kno wat to do! wat should i do? what should i even say??

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Talk to her about how that made you uncomfortable, and to please refrain from doing that in the future. If she's a good friend, she'll understand!

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Just say you enjoyed the evening, but you don't want to make it a habit.

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dont let it bother you just try not to do it again. still talk to her though unless you are really scared about having done that

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You should talk to her. You apparently engaged in very intimate acts with her. If you don't want to pursue a sexual relationship with her, you owe it to her to tell her that. If she's your friend, she will understand. Things happen when were drunk that we don't always feel so good about afterwards. She may not want that kind of relationship with you either, even though she is les.

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i will. maybe. there is like war inside me on one side saying be with her and the other side dont. i dont kno which side to choose. im so stressed over this :(
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That's an honest statement from you. The fact that you are willing to ask yourself the tough questions will help you. Good luck.
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