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My fianc? has told me she has cheated on both her ex boyfriends should I trust her not to do it again and we have a baby on the way

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Are you sure you're the father of the baby? I mean she is a cheater. Yes she'll cheat again. Once a cheater always a cheater.

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I'm getting a DNA test no matter what
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But I'm 100% sure for many reasons
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I would. Just saying.
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If you love her trust her, she was brave enough to tell you her past she probably had own reasons of why she did that, you cant jump into conclusions if you don't know why she did that don't assume too quick everyone has reasons of why they do stuff like that ask her :) you shouldn't judge her by her wrong doings on the past she might change for you :) stop living on the past, live for the present and the future a blessing is on you guys way :) good-luck

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That's up to you... at least she was honest I suppose. Talk to her about why she cheated so you can figure out what might trigger it. If she ever acts suspicious it'll be hard to trust her at all...

My biggest problem would be that she didn't just do it ONCE she did it in two different relationships.

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We'll the first guy she cheated on she was with for 6 years then thy broke up an she started dating someone else nd cheated on him with the 6 year guy and she cheated on both more than once then she got back with the first one and broke up again and now we been going strong for 3 years with our own place an a baby on the way
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Hmm well it sounds like she gets bored easily. Hopefully she's the type of girl that settles down after she has a child, but if not, I'd be very worried. I don't know how I could completely trust her.
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yes probably since she has told it 2 u.

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In my experience once a cheater always a cheater. Get DNA test on you snd baby once it is born

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All this "once a cheater all a cheater" is bull****. I know people who cheated on somebody but then they got married to the person they cheate with and never cheated again. Personally, because she told you, it means she's getting serious and wants all secrets and problems out of the way so she feels good about this and doesn't have to hide. She is trustworthy. Why else did you propose to her?

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