How do I choose between my best friend and someone who I truly love and who makes me happy?
Ok soo Me and my best friend had been friends for 2 years. We were inseparable. Then we grew apart. We stopped talking and hanging out maybe a text here and there. I ended up dating one of her exs, and I completely fell for him. but then had broken up on good terms. Recently me and her have gotten our friendship back. Its not exactly what it was but were working on it. When we were hanging out the other day he was brought up and it was hard for both of us to talk about the fact that I had dated him. He has asked me back out within the last couple days and ive been telling him i cant despite how much I want to and its hurting both of us. I dont want to lose my best friend again, but he means so much to me. They never talk anymore, but he told me to talk to her but im scared to tell her in fear of hurting her and jeopardizing the friendship that I had just got back. I do love him alot. He makes me happier than I have been in a very long time. Please help. Maybe on what I should say to her or what I should do in general. Thank you.