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What To Talk to Girlfriend about

I've had. girlfriend for the past month. we talk all the time threw text. but when it comes to Talkin in Person I HAVE NO IDEA what to talk about or say. and we walk and It's just an awkward silence and please.! I need To know what I can ask her. what can I tell her. things that would make a conversation going. (in person)

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Basically just ask her how her day was and (might seem corny but) just be yourself. Be sure to compliment her and from there the conversation should flow easily. Pretty much just ask her about anything you want to know

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So hows life? Passing any classes? Need any tutoring? Wanna go get some lunch/dinner? So what did she/he say to you? blah blah blah hold hands kiss makeout blah blah blah

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Ask her what 3 things she would bring if she was stuck in an island by herself.

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Ask her about things you enjoy it helps alot

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Do not take all the anxiety and responsibility of conversation on yourself as both of you have to learn how to communicate with each other. A relationship should be like a good friendship. It may be awkward at first but you want to ask questions to get to know her( Philippians 2:4) . Make sure to relax and listen as she talks instead of thinking what you will say next. Everyone has a topic that gets them talking so figure out what her interests are and ask her about that. While getting to know her make sure to share things about yourself so she can get to know you. Acting like really good friends is one way to make sure you are being your real self in a relationship. Also as Proverbs 15:13 says " A joyful heart has a good effect on the countenance" , so being happy with yourself and remembering that you are a great person who has thoughts and ideas will help both of you feel more comfortable. Show her how great and unique you are by comfortably being yourself. With these things the conversation may flow easier. :-)

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