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I have this nervous feeling that my best guy friend will become involved with someone else, should I tell him I want to be with him?

We are very close fRiends and we have very personal steamy conversations, but we live very far away from each other..he never talks about other girls to me,I think because he knows I can't Handle it, I don't even know if he is seeing anyone where he lives
I never talk about other guys to him, there is no one in this world I would rather be with,we are good friends,but it's wierd bc we flirt with each other heavily

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Depending on how "very far away" you live from one another, it may not matter what you say to him.
You need to actually BE THERE, in his bed, if you truly want to "be with him".
Are you ready to make that move?
If not, hold your words.

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I trying to,trying so hard
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You should tell him. Good luck :)

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You really can't be that good of friends if you can't discuss Whether or not. You are each seeing anyone else you are fooling your if you think that's a good friendship

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I know whay you mean,but I don't think he is seeing anyone, I'm afraid to ask because I'm afraid to hear something I don't want to hear..In the beginning,when it was more of a platonic friendship,we did discuss other relationships,but now we don't talk about anyone else in that sense..I'm not seeing anyone,I hope he isn't,I like to think that out of respect for each other we don't "go there" we both let each other know we are very attracted to each other,physically and mentally
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