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Does he like me or is it all in my head (GUYS PLEASE ANSWER) girls answer too but guys mostly

so I really like this guy he is my best friend and I went to a foot ball game and saw him there and he insisted on siting with me and my friend. It was really cold and I was shaking and he asked if I was cold and I said yes then he have me his jacket and said that I need it more than him then he asked if me and my friend wanted a hot chocolate and he paid for it. Then we were texting and he said that he loves me like his little sister (he's 1 year and 1/2 older than me). Then he knows that I don't like scary movies and he says we should have a movie night like he would rent a bunch of movies and we could watch them. I asked him if he would be there the whole time and he said I promise you will be fine. I'm so confused I really want to know if he likes me or is he just a really good friend and what should I do?

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Ask him if he likes you. That's the easiest way to find out. "Loving someone like a sister" usually means you are in the friend zone, however, young kids don't know what their feelings are - ask him - really it's not that difficult. If he doesn't like you then so what - you are a baby - there is plenty of time to find a boyfriend and a mate - if it changes how your friendship is- then he wasn't a real friend to begin with

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Just ask him!... ^.°

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since he included the like a sister part I think its more of a lets hang out kind of thing

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He probably said it as a diversion just so you know
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if he already went through all the trouble to do all the other things then he shouldnt be nervous to just ask her out instead of hidding behind "I like you like a sister" its bs if somebody uses that then they dont deserve the girl
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I honestly think he has feelings for you. You should go and watch movies and see how things go.

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Does he look at you a lot? He might like you but I would get a friend to find out for sure

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I swear I answered a question with exact situations and events to this yesterday

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I am a guy and i would say that if he looks at you a lot and talks with you i would try asking him who he likes, if he hesitates or acts like he is making something up he probably likes you.

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Hmm.. He might be guy-friend zoning you.

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Yeah but it's WAY easier for a girl to get out of the friend zone than a guy
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I think he looks at you as a sister. He paid for the drinks because that's the right thing to do. But the jacket part confuses me, he probably cares about you. I don't think he likes you as in a relationship.
Well since I don't know him, I think you should just talk to him about it, and just ask him if he likes you. Start off by saying you like him though. But since you are best friends, it might ruin your friendship.

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Believe what he said. He loves you like a little sister. He said it so you wouldn't make a thing out of it.

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sounds like he has the hots for ya

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To many unknowns to make a guess and that's all anyone can do, guess.

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He probably likes u but thes debating on if he should ignore it the problem is he like likes u and likes u as a sister so hes having trouble deciding

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Definitely has a crush you. Also when u are watching the movies,u guys will probably end up kissing(GRANTEE)

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He likes you make your move !!!

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He said the "loves you like a little sister part" to avoid you telling him you don't lime him "that way" if you don't and at the sametime he can still do what he loves, spend time with you and be closer all the time. Ask him out. I am a guy. Trust me.

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Mmm, girl, you be in the friend zone.

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"like sister"...well do you like him? If yes, ask him if he likes you and don't act like you want him to say yes.

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Has he ever complimented you or done little favors for you? If so, he likes you.

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Ya this guy was harassing me at a dance and he asked me if I was ok and I told him what happened and he found the guys and said if they ever lay a finger on me again he would kill them so does that count
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Yes. He probably likes you, he's just too shy to tell you.
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