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My best friend wants me to lie to my other friends. What do I do?

I invited three of my friends (let's call them, Anna, Licia and Annie) to a masquerade ball at my college. I told them that it's free to get in. My friend Anna told me that she told her care provider that it's just gonna be her, her care provider and me. I told her that I invited my other two best friends if they wanted to come. She told me that her mom doesn't want her to be around Annie. I don't know why. I asked her what am I suppose to tell her. Anna said, "Tell them that the dance is canceled." Why would I wanna say that? I can't lie to Annie and Licia. It will mess up the friendship. This is upsetting me. I an NOT gonna lie.

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Honestly, I think you should tell "Anna" that you're inviting the other girls. If she can't come, you are deeply sorry. And you will miss her and tell her all about it on a later date.

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Oh I see what you mean. I can't lie to the other girls because that will break their hearts.
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Be honest. Invite the other girls, and if she can't o because of it, it was never your fault. Make other plans or something for just the two of you later. But have fun.
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Oh I see. Anna and I talked it out and she says it's fine having the other girls there. She doesn't want any trouble that's all.
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There you go! :) have fun
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Thank you =)
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Don't lie to your friends because another "friend" asked you to. The ones you lie to will be angry with you when they find out (and they will). Then most likely the one who asked you to lie will say she never told you that, and you will get the blame. Once you start lying, it gets really complicated and really nasty.

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That's exactly what I'm saying. Good news is Anna and I talked it out and she says it's fine having the other girls there.
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Good. I'm glad you got it straightened out.
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Thank you =)
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clairebear318 is RIGHT!

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Thank you =)
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