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My boyfriends mother doesnt like me but I really love him. Should I still be with him even tho his mom doesnt want us to be together?

Were young but we have been together for almost a year and I love him very much and do not want to loose him. We both still want to be together and were happy together the only problem is his mom. He doesnt care but I dont know what to do bec I have never had a mom not like me. HELP!!

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F****k yeah u should be with him if u both like eachothr dont care wht other people think follow ur heart!

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Hahaha!
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Thanx. :)
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I am sorry that your boyfriend's mom does not like you when you love him so much. If your boyfriend has no issue with you, I do not see the reason for you to leave him. However, express the feelings you have towards his mom to him. You can also try to talk to his mom and try to make her understand your relationship with her son.

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He wants to be together and he doesnt are what his mom says bec he loves me. Thats his words. I talked to his mom last night for like two hours and Idk if it helped but I hope it did bec I do not want to loose him. I can honestly say I have fallen for this guys and he is the only guys I have ever had feeling for that are this strong. I am going to do0 what I can to still be with him but im have a feeling that his mom is going to do what she can to keep us apart. I dont think I am going to leave him im just worried about us drifting appart.
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Yes!

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Thanx. Thats what I thought.
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absolutely!!! its not her choice its yours, but it sucks that shes that way..maybe try to get on her good side... <3

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I have tried many times but she is not giving me a chance
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Forbiden love is called romance

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Don't Mind those haters, there always there your whole life! :-)

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Ofcourse don't worry about his mom she'll have to accept you IF you guys get married and have kids anyway! I'm sure the mom just doesn't like you because she doesn't want her son in a relationship yet. Don't worry I'm sure it has nothing to do with who you are she's just angry about the situation.

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I say dont worry about it. If she doesn't like you then I'd say that there is something that happened that your not mentioning, but still you can always win her over again with time and effort.

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My nephew is going through the same thing with his mom, my sister-in-law. They had always been close until this girl came into the picture. Now, he spends EVERY free moment he has with her; and when he's not at her house, she's at his house and my sister-in-law resents it. It's actually jealousy. She misses that special relationship she had with her son. If the reason she doesn't like you is not that she thinks you're a bad person or influence, this may be the case. If so, if he would just give his mom a little more of his time, she might ease up. Good luck to you.

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ALL 3 of you should sit down together and TALK THIS THING THROUGH!

Plan it out as a formal meeting where all 3 of you AGREE on the time & place, plus the scope of the subject to be discussed: ONLY this woman's regard of your shared romantic relationship with her son.

While we love our children, and want only what's best for them, our ability to guide them in their romantic choices is ultimately quite limited.

Getting everything out in the open, perhaps also including your parents in this exchange, seems to be most likely to lead you all into a most responsible agreement.

Yes, together having both sets of parents openly discuss their regard of this relationship will serve you best.

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Haha well it sounds good but dad hates his parents. My dad will never agree to that. My dad thinks we should stay together and he said that he is happy to help as long as he doesnt have to talk to or see his parents anymore bec of the way they have treated me in the past.
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Love is love, stick with it and just let her know you love him and she can't change that, make it very clear how much you love him. Trust me, if not for that tactic my husbands mom would still hate me XP

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Lol awesome. I told her that I love him very much and there is not a damn thing that she can do to keep two ppl that are in love away from each other.
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Exactly, she'll get over herself and see how you two feel eventually, just night take some serious time.
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Ya I figured but im not going to leave him any time soon. He is my world and if I have it my way were will be together for a while.
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Sounds like a good plan, just a warning, you never know what can happen so be sure you can land on your feet when the shit hits the fan, kay?
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Just be sure you can land on your feet if she gets to him. Good luck hope you two last, not many of us do.
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Idk he has turned into my world but Im sure that if I fall I can pick myself back up with time. It may be hard but I have done it before. I mean I fave been heart broken before but I have never EVER been this crazy about a guy. I really do love him and I hope everything works out. He is pretty stubborn I dont think she will get to him but we will see with time.
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Yeah you will, if my husband wasn't stubborn we would never have gotten married int he first place.
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So I know how you feel witht he parents thing, it gets easier as they get use to you.
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Alright I hope so. Thanx for ur help. :)
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Anytime.
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No, moms know best for their sons. Moms spend many years raising and traing their sons for another woman.

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So what are u saying??
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They are trying to say she's right, but I'm sure she's not.
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See but the only reason she does not like me is bec I am pregnant and its not his kid and he wants to be there and be the babys dad. She doesnt want that thats the only reason. He cares about me and loves me as much as love him and he wants to be with me but she doesnt want us together bec she is afraid that he will through away his dreams for me and my baby. This is his choice at any given moment he can change his mind im not stopping him from doing anything that he wants he chose to be with me and be here for the baby when there is no dad in the pic. That was his choice. She just doesnt want to loose him I guess but im not stopping him from following his dreams he can do what he wants. All I know is I love him and I am not going to let his mom stand in my way. He will do what he wants and I will support him in following his dreams. I told him I do not want this baby stopping him. He says if I want to stay and give up my deam for u and that baby I will. He loves me and showes me everyday. I will be with him until he tells me to leave. He is my everything and I love him very much. His mom may know whats best for him but he is almost grown and he can make choices for himself now regardless of what his mom says. I love him very much and I know she does to but we all grow up at some point and fall in love and do crazy things that are parents may not like. That life and thats how people grow up. We have choices to make for our selfs and only for us. He is making his choice and I will support him in every way possible until he tells me to leave. I love him and I always will no matter what happens. Love conquers all things!
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