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Is it ok that my boyfriend still has pictures of his ex when they did things together on his computor?

I used his computor and saw that he had alot of pictures of them together. Should i be jealous? Am i over reacting?

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Well they were together. Just because you and he are together, doesn't erase his past. Of course it's okay. If you have a problem with it, just talk to him about it. Don't ask him to get rid of them, but do be honest. If it bothers you then tell him. Let him decide what to do with them.

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please dont overreact

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No; dump him... He is unsettled

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No, it's not ok. Tell him "Delete those pictures or I'll delete YOU!" Holding onto those pix means he's still holding onto her.

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Are they "suggestive" or "bad" pictures? If they are then yes, I wouldn't be okay with that. If they're just regular pictures you're over-reacting.

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Don't make a big deal, he probably never got around to deleting them because he doesn't even remember he has them on his computer, you're the only one on his mind :) unless like Eevvee said if they are pictures of something bad

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no you are not over reacting it okay if you are mad or jealous but go and start taking picture twice as more so that you won't have to think about it.

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He should have deleted those pictures already if he was wanting a new relationship. . you're not over reacting.

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NO THATS A SIGN THAT THEY ARE STILL INTO EACH OTHER<WARNInG>

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You are not over reacting. He might not realize it so don't bring it up to him. Once you think about it, there isn't much to do with those pictures becomes time to time stumble upon them and say, " Hey I used to date her" and be done with it.

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