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Should I explain to him?

Okay so during lunch one time I was hanging with my friends, and my guy friend comes and sits next to me and we talked for a few minutes. Now I don't like him, but I guess someone thought I must've because I saw this guy that I was in a couple of classes before (who I used to fancy...) was literally staring at us. Now I was kind of confused, because we never really talked to each other. I used to think he liked me back but then he got a girlfriend and so I gave that thought up quickly.

Now I guess he thinks me and my guy friend are in some sort of relationship, but I don't want any rumors and stuff going around, so how should I explain to the guy that I'm not really in a relationship with someone? I feel kind of shy around him since I used to like him, but I don't know how I should let him know. I don't think I can walk up and tell him this.

Gah, I feel like a fifth grader asking questions like this.

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Don't worry about it. Just do what you've been doing and stop focusing on what everyone else thinks is going on. If they really wanted to know they'd ask you. And if they want to spread the rumors than let them. You know the truth and that's all that matters. You shouldn't let a stupid rumor get in the way of your friendship(s).

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Hard one. Try talking to the guy you used to like. He might just ask you about the other guy (if you're lucky...) Try not to talk to him in a big group, if you're shy,

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i think he likes u but he thinks ur dating ur friend.

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