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How to tell if your IN LOVE? :) Grade 8 Girl

Well there's a boy I liked from January until like May... (in grade 7). During the summer, I kinda stopped liking him... Then from mid-September, ... all the way up to now... I still like him!!!! Now that he's in my class, I get to talk to him a tiny bit more and I like him more than ever!!!!

I don't really know the reason I stopped liking him last year... we just didn't really talk much :/

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You're only in eighth grade. You're not in love with him, you're just obsessed with the idea of being in love with him.

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lol :)
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If you are in love with someone you are most likely to have strong feelings towards someone and you feel like spending time with him. I know from person experiences that you get nervous and a bit jittery around them. Sometimes during the teenage years these are all phases, but I understand what you mean about liking a guy and then months later realizing you love him. Try spending more time with him and getting to know him better. That way he will get to know you and you will learn if he is the right guy for you.

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I doubt youre in love. Just learning and experiencing new feelings. Just have fun and hang with your friends. Youre too young for that. At your age you can get hurt easy!

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Thank you :)
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Youre very welcome.
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You're not, sweetie! It's called puppy love! Been there many times!
Also, if you're "in love", you don't have to ask strangers! You just know!

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I guess I'm in "puppy love" ;)
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it's not love, maybe there's something about him that attracts you to him, if it were love you would've never stopped liking him. It has nothing to do with you being in 8th grade, I met my boyfriend in that grade level and I am now a Senior in high school and we are still together.

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Hey Im an 8th grade too :) WE RULE OUR MIDDLE SCHOOLZ! Just tell him I guess....

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