This is my honest opinion. I would because it doesn't matter what he looks like its how he treats you. I don't like it when girls judge guys on their looks. My friend does that and she's not the best girl in the world. Just as long as he treats you decently.
5 months ago
Last edited at 10:37PM on 10/22/2013
Yes. A person's personality matters the most. I'm sure that no girl wants to date a jerk with a terrible personality. I'm currently in a relationship with a guy who many people find unattractive, because of his looks, but that doesn't matter to me. He's everything that I could ever want in a guy.
Looks don't matter.. To an extent(sorry if you think this is shallow). But I'm being honest. If they are a good person, but I don't find them attractive, it might happen. I won't say what's on the inside is all that matters.
5 months ago
Last edited at 10:36PM on 10/22/2013
As a young person, honestly probably not. It's important to have initial physical attraction to a person. But for me to be attracted to someone, they don't have to be a model. If they shower and take time and care into their appearance then I'll probably find them at least a little attractive. I spend a lot of time on my health and appearance so I want someone who does the same so it's an equal relationship. I'm also really into fitness and running, so I'm attracted to fit people... I want someone I can run with. I'm sure certain qualities are more or less important to different people.
And how unfair would it be to date someone that you don't find physically attractive. What do you say to them when they ask you if they're good looking? Would you get turned on by them still? A relationship shouldn't start off like that. When you're older and you're spent years together it starts to change though.
Even when I was young I was more attracted to charisma, drive and personality. If they were confident, I found that sexy. But if they were very unattractive, that was a turn off. Many very attractive men and women are self-absorbed and shallow. Some attractive people don't age well and some not so attractive people do! Nice isn't enough for me. There has to be chemistry. Chemistry isn't always based on looks.
Honestly it doesnt matter what they look like what matters if they treat you right and if they have an amazing personailty that what makes them attractive their personailty But to me on any guy their personailty has to be good for me all has been said.
I would consider him as a friend. The human mind looks at the appearance first. then the personality. I look differently, very hard too. But, if I don't like his looks even if he's got a wonderful personality, it ain't happening.