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I don't think my sister loves me (i am a boy)

i love my sister allot i did things for her that none else would do for her but it seemed to me like she doesn't love me as i love her i always want that she should remain and nothing bad happens to her but nowadays i don't know why but she don't like to talk to me i always gave her the most priority in my life but she does somethings which made me feel like she doesn't love me she sometimes even is not interested in what i am telling her but i don't think she loves me as much as i love her we're of the same age

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She's probably just doing her own thing, and I hate to say it, but may be a little annoyed with you being protective (at least that's what it sounds like). although it's great to be protective and to show her you love her, you need to remember that she needs space and the chance to screw up every once in a while. I guarantee she loves you too, but you can't put her as the #1 priority in your life because you're an individual too. Also some people just show affection differently. :)

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great response...
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Thank you! :)
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welcome to my world

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Here goes that sister complex.

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You're probably right.

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She might think you are trying too hard, dont make it seem like that or she will get creeped out. Just ask her about it.

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Well yeah me and my older sister are just like good friends and its fine.my twin brother however I freaking hate him and I'm not joking.like if he were to die tonight id be the only one there laughing saying he deserved it because he does.hes rude to people,ignorant, and just about everything else.his only friends are the other retarded kids who get in trouble all the time.he makes new friends every year and by the end they see how he is and just drop him

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That is cruel, perhaps the problem isn't him, it's you.
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I'm sorry, but I have to say that as much as you may think you hate him, I guarantee that you really don't deep down. Take this from someone who spent about 3 years swearing she hated her brother with a burning passion, and saying she'd laugh if he died. Then two people in my family died 3 weeks apart, and I realized that no matter how much I wanted to hate my brother for having essentially abandoned me as his baby sister when I needed a big brother the most, I still loved him. Please do yourself a favor and don't take your brother for granted. Because there's always that chance that he won't be there anymore and you'd never have the chance to actually talk to him like a human being and show him that you love him.
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I'm serious.once he had an asthma attack and the doctors said he might not live through the night.i sat there laughing for about half am hour.like really he does nothing for me so why should I give a crap about him. I'm not joking like you don't understand.i can't even put it into words
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Seriously? Not trying to sound offensive here, but are you a sociopath? They have little to no compassion or empathy for others. And just because he doesn't seem like he does anything for you doesn't mean he doesn't love you either. Just curious, how old are you guys? And maybe you should try getting to know him better and would understand why he does things the way he does. Idk, I just feel like that's not healthy at all to have such a deep hatred towards a sibling, and I'm trying to understand.
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And again, sorry if I sounded offensive, not my intention! :)
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I have empathy for just about everyone else except him.
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Interesting. And I really hope you didn't take that the wrong way! >.< sorry. But I do mean that you should try to reconcile that a bit? Just so it's healthier for you, because I know from experience, hating someone that much takes a tole on you, especially if you live with the person. :)
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Just trying to be helpful, even though it's none of my business haha :)
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It doesn't take a time on me at all.i know I have to let all that anger out sometimes and I play football so it helps since I'm a linebacker.even my coaches say I play way better when I'm mad because when me and my team mates argue I just turn into this angry fearless machine that does nothing but knock the crap outta people so really it helps me
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Ooh, well that's good that you have an outlet for all that anger! :)
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Well siblings have equal love, they are just expressed in different ways.

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Saying you love God will all be a lie if you don't love your brothers and sisters.....If you don't love your sisters or brothers that you see, talk, walk, sleep, eat and live with everyday(coz they are visible) how much more to God which you haven't seen, not even for 1 second in your life?

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