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I don't know what to do to help my 6 yr old niece .. Read description.

My brother in law.. is an animal. Anything my niece does annoys him and he gets violent. Just now she was looking for her pj's and she accidentally dropped some clothes and he started yelling at her and he kicked her 3 times and pushed her.. I'm even scared to stand up for her and no one else in my family says anything because they say it's none of their business but this is just out of hand.. :/

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You need to report him to authorities immediately. If he seriously physically harms or kills the child you wont be able to live with yourself. Who knows what type of damage the child currently suffers emotionally behind all this. If he does this in the presence of others, who knows what the child has been through at the hands of his monster when no one else is around. Besides, this child is your niece; it's neglect/indirect abuse of you to let this continue. if you didn't know this was WRONG you wouldn't be reaching out for help. KUDOS to you! this child needs your help. HELP HER!

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he lives with me and my family and he is not embarrassed at all to do such things in front of us.. I never leave my niece alone at home with him and she sleeps in mu bedroom. I, myself, moved her bed to my room.. I don't know why he treats her this way :( she's an amazing child.. he only treats his son kindly. . is it preference? ah..
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How old is your brother in law first? If hes a kid then he should be busted! But if its an adult then its abuse. I say stand up for her, Harming another human being like that, and especially a 6yr is just horrid. But if you CANT stand up for her in case of physical harm to yourself then you need help.

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he's my niece's father.. he's an adult; 26. I want to call the police but .. I'm sure his wife (my sister) would be mad at me.. noone pays any attention at all to what happens, but me :'l I literally cry when I see this happen. .
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Who cares? Just call the police!
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Please report this to police immediately. You can do so anonymously. You may save her from serious injury or even be saving her life.
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Call the police. Your niece has to be protected and you can't do that.

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hehehe. the answer is simple. scare him. make him listen and bend to your will. A violent side is nothing if they are scared of something.

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Xaii do not put yourself in danger. Authorities need to handle this child abuser. Just report him to police.
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I thought I read it as he was a child. Yeah police. He needs the police and a temper management pill and a mental hospital
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You are right, your brother in law most definitely is an animal. He kicked her 3 times and then pushed her and no one did anything? He is a child abuser and needs to be reported immediately before he can further abuse this poor child. Turn him in to child protective services right away. This cannot continue.!!!

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If your sister sits there and does nothing, she would spend some time in jail, too! The brother-in-law needs to be arrested! When are you going to do something?? Report this child abuser!! That poor child.

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Police

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Quit being passive. Nobody else is standing up for her, call the police and be damned to anyone that doesn't like it

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