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Me and my man have been together for 2 years and all over sudden when he's at work he has no conversation he calls but he doesn't say much

should I confront the issue or not? I'm pregnant and sometimes iI don't speak to him all day but when one of his officers pull up on the side of him he says I wanna get off the phone because I don't have anything to talk about

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He's at work. Work pays for baby, you should encourage him to work, not be smoochies during the day.

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Hello I also work and pay for baby but he rushes to get off the phone when his fellow officers are around he says I just don't have anything to say but he hasn't spoken to me all day
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hes at work leave him alone for crying out loud

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I also work
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and does he bother you at work
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Let the man work! He's trying to provide for you and your baby. Be grateful you have a good, hard working man. Take some stress off his shoulders by relaxing.

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He isn't the only only one that works I work
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People always have times when they're just irritable or want to be left alone. Understand that.
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You have to understand that he's working, work is very serious. if he had no job there would be a lower income which is less food,bills,baby supplies. don't stress to much over it.

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Yeah I know but I do work and I'm the one that has been buying the baby clothes we also split bills
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I don't think I understand your concern. Not everyone is a conversational genius. He's working .. and shouldn't even BE on the phone having a private conversation ... period.

My guess is he literally doesn't have anything to say because nothing worth mentioning has happened since you seen him last. I can't imagine calling my husband during a busy work day .. just to talk. That's absurd! If I want to 'talk' I save it until he gets home .. so when he DOES get home ... we've got something to 'talk about' ... HE does the same.

Calling during the day is far too 'needy' .. that would irritate the crap outta me. I never want to be one of 'those' wives to have to keep constant contact .. I can only imagine fellow workers would have a 'field day' with razzing your man about that.

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