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Why do I get jealous over my fiances relationship in the past? He treats me amazing but I can't stop thinkin bout them help I'm ruining us

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It's normal to get jealous that he was once happy with someone else besides you; but it's over now, he's with you and loves you, not her. You just need more reassurance within your relationship and more confidence.

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She's his ex for a reason, things are good between you two, don't let an old relationship he had bother you, keep the past in the past !

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Just remember that everyone has an ex. I know it's hard especially if you have met them. Always keep in mind that he has asked you to spend forever with him. Look forward to a great future and let the past go.

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Leave the past where it belongs, in the past. Don't ruin your relationship over something you have 0 control over.

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lost a good girl cuz of the same deal. will it bother u more to stay or leave and for that reason. everybody got baggage

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So you lost your girl because she was bringing up your ex or you brought up her ex?? An either way I'm upset and think about them even if were together. He never talks about her tho
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Never compare yourself to others ( Galatians 6:4). It is not useful to look at somebody else and then look at yourself and try to figure out what they have that you don't. Being anxious about things like this can waste your life and energy. The only person you have to be better than is the person you were yesterday, Learn to love yourself for just being you and this will help you to allow him to love him. Sometimes we create problems in our heads that ruins the reality of the joy we have in our lives.

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