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The last about him. This time will he arrive eventually? (even if he made a commitment* that he would from before)

After knowing eachother for 7-8 years. We've been bestfriends - to - lovers. Today, as I spoke to ask him to be honest about its offically over and done forever. he hadn't said nothing then next 2 more times I asked. Finally, he had told me that he's with someone... and well, he still haves the books and things I gaven him last year and this year. I know this because I've asked today to his siblings they said yeah and they read it. and they told me exactly what I've had wroton and his close friend even said they had read it.. Also, his siblings have said he cried and still reads them. But even though he still loves me, and his mother, siblings and closest friends and mine know he loves me. Do you think he'd evantually come back, to be together or not? because to begin with we were very very close!
( By the way, our break up was for a little reason.. but neither of us never cheated, played, etc... )

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That's painful situation. Who knows if he will come back...he is with someone now. Maybe trying to move on is best, even if it hurts.

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We really don't know if he will come back but what I will say is everything happens for a reason. Sometimes old pride gets in the way. Give him his time and space and see what comes about. You just never know...maybe communication between the two of you all is what's needed

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you just said he is with someone else; how does that translate to not cheating? even if it is in principle only it is cheating.even if he wanted to come back, and he prob will, it would take alot for me to take someone like that back who could leave me over something so small.

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Be really honest with yourself, relationships as long as yours don't break up for "little reasons," something was building up over time and that's what the real reason was. I'm troubled by the fact that he is letting so many other people read what you've given him, but maybe I don't understand what you gave him, (your punctuation is so bad, it's difficult to figure out what you're trying to say.) There's an old saying that might be helpful to you, it goes kind of like this: If you love someone, let them go. If they come back to you, they are really yours. If they don't come back, they never were.

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