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How should I feel? My fiance ditches my Birthday to go for his friend's girlfriend birthday?

He lied that he has to work overtime with no extra pay. I didn't believe that's why I looked into it and found out that he got invited to his friend's girlfriend birthday, the same day he promised to take me out for my birthday dinner. I don't mind going to join his friends even though I know myself it is my special day too.

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You have a right to be mad! He lied to go to someone ELSES girlfriends birthday! I would be even more mad that he lied . And he's your fiancé, so you should talk to him because you don't want to get a divorce over lying. Talk to him and tell him how you feel.

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It's kind of laid out there for you.

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raises a question for me..why would he lie to go to a bday party without you. I'd be checking on that. I know how I'd feel

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well bad right. look he's a jerk and you know it. brake up with him. if he's lien now imagine more in the future

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You should dump him seriously if be like peace out ill find a guy who truly cares n remembers my damn birthday.

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He probably wanted to go to a party where he would have fun.

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u should have all the right to be mad but talk to him tell him why he lied&what was the reason behind it...he shouldn't do that if he was ur fiance.

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You should feel like ditching him. Your fianc? has some sort of a problem. Try to remember if there are any other incidences similar to this one. When you come closer to seeing what his issues is determine if you want to deal with it or "ditch" it.

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I'd be pissed!! He went to another girls party on your birthday? Not cool!! it doesn't matter that it was his friends girlfriends party.He obviously doesn't care about you that much or he wouldn't have done this to you. I'd kick his butt to the curb and find someone who deserves you. He doesn't deserve a fianc at all!

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He's NOT your "fianc?e".
Seriously.
Any guy that would pull this stunt is NOT going to marry you!
Frankly, he's not much of a friend, period.

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if I were you id ditch him... on the side of the road asshat in the middle of nowhere

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Tell him that YOU went out on that night and had a blast. Oh, and that you met someone else. Then say buh-byeeee!

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No one can tell you how to feel. You have and have the rights to your emotions and feelings. Don't let anyone tell you how you should feel.' If it were me I would be beyond angry. If I would have done that to my wife she more than likely would have left me.

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no one should be more important that you .. on your special day... find someone else that will put you first.

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thats sad at least you know what your in for if you stay :/

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