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Why was he so mean to me?

In the 8th grade, I started being friends with this guy. We weren't really good friends, we just talked in 4th period and that's it. One day he found out that I really liked his best friend. Then for no reason he started being really mean to me. He would make fun of me then say he's just kidding, and he would throw things at me and say that it slipped. We would always be arguing. But secretly, I liked him, and I hated that. I didn't understand why I could like someone I hate. My brain said no but my heart said yes (I know it's cheesy). This went on for the whole year and I found out that the best friend didn't like me even though it seemed like he did :'(. I'm in the 9th grade now and he isn't so mean to me. On the first day, he made a little joke on how they even let me into this school and gave me a hug (I almost fainted XD). The best friend goes to a different school now. I don't understand why he was mean to me and why he stopped all of a sudden. We don't talk much but we say hi in the halls and I sometimes see him looking at me. I really like him (got over the best friend) and I don't know what to do. :/

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Lol he had a crush on you, that's cute :) boys will often take it a different way than girls. Remmember when you were young if you liked a boy you might take something then run around the playground just to get his attention. Boys do that, I found out after a long time that my enemy liked me. It took a long time to find that out but he used to pick on me every day, used to throw things at me and make me embarrased in the halls. He would look for me just to make fun of me i front of everyone. But secretly he had a crush on me. In the 9th grade he dated a girl who look exactly like me which was creepy but I passed it off as just coincidence. But it wasn't until later that I realized he had a crush on me and his older brother had thought I was good looking and so he picked on me. For some reasons they also do that to pretend they don't like you, in ways he may have been hurt because you liked his friend. Now he doesn't have competition and he may settle down :)

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Thanks! :) I'm not sure if I should tell him that I like him, ask a friend that's a good friend of his if he likes anyone, or if I should just wait for him to make a move.
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I would suggest getting him alone and asking him to hang out with you. If all goes well from there you can try to ask him out :)
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Stop being his friend!

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realy very unhelpful
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If I am not mistaken, he has a crush on you. He hated you because he thought that you liked him back when you actually liked his friend. Oh teens, haha. Don't do drugs, crack is wack, stay in school.

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As a guy. This logic is sound.
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Not really some boys are like that so if they hug you that means they like you because what boy who is not related to you will hug you just saying I know how you fell don't feel bad I now how you feel just let him do the move

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Not always sometimes I just feel like hugging everyone.
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yes maybe he likes you because this hugs me and people say he might like me
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he is mean because he feeles like you are trying to steal his friends witch kinda pushed the buly switch on him!!!!! just try to avoud him and ask yourself.....how would i like to be treated then treat him like that!!!!

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It's called flirting

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