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MagicMusik

Why do most guys think girls are flirting with them when they are just talking?

Most of the guys i know always assume that I am flirting with them when I talk to them. Whhyy??

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Gotta have hope.

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Haha nice
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MagicMusik
Wait I don get gettet. Wa u Mean King??
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Lolol!
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Its an automatic response of a male

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Either because they aren't used to girls just talking to them just to talk, or they're flirts themselves. Happens to me too -_-

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hmmm I don't know why, its not like you are pretty or some thing (sarcasim included for free) lol
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Lol well not thank you! (sarcasm) ^_^
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Hope springs eternal.

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Most girls I know of don't walk up to me and start talking. When a girl does start talking, I think she's flirting.

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Well that's....a weird way to look at it....but ur the kind of guys i'm talking about
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Well I'm not the kind of guy a girl just goes up to and starts talking to.
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Mainly because we just want someone to just like us so bad that we forget that you're just our friend now. So when u break it to us that u just want to be friends we're hurt by it. But it's Normal for a male to think that you're flirting so we can flirt back secretly.

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Oh.. yeah I guess that makes the most sense...Thank you!
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You're welcome :p
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Because they're either desperate or it's just usually a response that they think the girl likes them and is flirting, but not all guys are like that.

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You go girl! You're dam straight we're not all like that! (Some of us are gay).
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Guys like women, they talk to women they want to have sex with. If the women talks back, they assume you want sex with them as well.

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probably because he thinks she likes him

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Yeah but WHY every time??
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Either he thinks she likes him, or he likes her. (most likely he likes her) He probably doesn't want to be friend zoned
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Are you flirting with me? ;)

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MagicMusik
Sure, why not....???
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yes, yes I am, my, my what a big rifle you have!
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MagicMusik
lol
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Ohmy, stop it Gussie, lolol! XD
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Because ALL GUYS, I don't care who u are ALL GUYS want someone to like them so when a girl is talking to them they instantly think that us girl are flirting when all we want to do is have a descent conversation. And we don't wanna talk to a guy that has his fat head shoves so far up his *** to realize that.

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no.
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Lol: I think that guys are easier to figure out than girls ;p.
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I think you like me.

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MagicMusik
YYeeaaHH....
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Hahaha
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Wishful thinking.

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are you trying to crush my hopes and dreams?
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Relax guss, she just wants us to think that she doesn't find us irresistible :) !
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when, I was worried there for a moment!
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whew*
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Of course I find y'all irresistible! I was meaning this to the asker. Lol ;)
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I never thought that they were flirting with me, but often thought it would be nice if some of them did now and then.

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I flirt with you all the time! Are you telling me that I don't count, Mister Man???
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Nope, just wanted to hear you admit it :) !
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Satisfied now? ;)
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Almost, you never even noticed that I changed my picture :( !
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Yes I did too! I just didn't mention it. It made it hard to find you at first, but I like it. ;)
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Ok, I'll let it slide this time ! It's a statue of Leonardo DaVinci, outside the Uffizi Gallery in Florence, Italy. The sun was just coming between the buildings and it caught my eye the way his head was illuminated:) !
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I wish I could see it for real.
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Well, if you play your cards right ??? :) !
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I'm a good card player! ;)
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We could ask the same thing about you girls.If one of us good looking guys talk to you just to talk to you and be your friend.you automaticly think we are flirting with you.

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Well of course you're flirting with us! We'd be mad and hurt if you didn't, you quack! That's your job! You're supposed to make us feel good about ourselves, in case you didn't know! Geesh!
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I didn't see that in my contract!
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Read the fine print!
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wait where are my glasses...
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because they want that one thing...

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its the same with girls... just vise versa

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There is a solution to this: GUYS, whenever a girl starts talking to you--interrupt her and say: "Are you flirting with me?" Lol xD.

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