Am I the only person this happens to?
I dont know what is happening but I'm just having the worst luck. Pretty much this exact scenario has happened to me multiple times over the past few years. I will start talking to a girl, we will talk a lot and everything starts off great. We will go out on dates and everything goes well and I get all the expected feedback. Then after 3 weeks to a month or so, when Im really starting to like her, things ALWAYS take a turn for the worse. The girl just like gives up on me. Wont answer if i call/text and just like cuts it off. And one time, a girl that quit talking to me saw me a few days later and she came up and introduced me to her new boyfriend (theres a kick in the balls). It just really sucks when after awhile I do talk to them and ask why things went wrong and its always "youd be a perfect boyfriend but..." or "it wasnt you it was me" or "i just didnt feel anything between us". I dont know if I'm waiting too long to ask them to be my girlfriend or what? Its just really crushing my confidence when it seems like the same thing keeps happening over and over. I just want to know why in seemingly one day things keep going from great, to terrible at the drop of a hat?