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I had sex with my boyfriend because he came to tell me he was leaving to move somewhere else D: I know the consequences but it was last night... could I be pregnant?

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Jeez how would we know? You had intercourse so YES the chances of being pregnant are 50/50. Go to a doctor.

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Depends if you used protection.
If not, It is possible. Try a pregnancy test. Make sure you but 2 or 3 to make sure.

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get a pregnancy tester buy more than one brand to before sure

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Plan B if it was unprotected. Today, NOT tomorrow. Sperm can live inside your body for up to a week. It takes 0 to 5 days for sperm to meet egg after intercourse, so it's possible that you're not pregnant yet, but you will be. Once you're pregnant, your options become worse.

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well I knew this would probably happen but I was just really depressed because we had been together so long and I could feel he was going to propose but we got into separate collages in different states and I like freaked out...
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If you are that impulsive, you are really not ready for college life!
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...ok
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There is ALWAYS a chance of becoming pregnant after sexual intercourse. If you failed to use protection, then those chances are even higher. If this all happened last night, it's way too early to be able to tell whether or not you're preggo. Wait a few days, a couple weeks. If you are indeed pregnant, symptoms will arise.

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thanks!
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You're welcome. Best of luck sweetheart.
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A little more details please. Where you protected?

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well I wasn't naked for a while of it then I was... Idk if this helps but...
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most of the time it was making out but like 15-30% of it was actual sex
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a little was actual sex most was just making out obsessively
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Did he ejaculate in you?
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well a little maybe?? I fell asleep for a few minutes
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lol but that was when I had my head on his shoulder so probably not then but maybe when I was partially awake...
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Have you had your period recently?
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no
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this was last night but my period was due the 1st of November
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Oh. You might wanna try a pregnancy test. You very well could, sadly :(
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I mean it's not that sad unless he decides to propose to me while I'm pregnant...
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if I am... gosh it is so suspenseful..
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I get it. This must be a hard time. I hope the best for you and your bf.
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thanks I am dying what if he quits collage for me he won't be able to get back in!
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wow there is a lot of mixed emotions wrapped up in this!!
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yeah. sounds like hell and heaven.
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when will I know for sure the tests are correct??
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or semi correct?
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Wait 7-14 days. If you are pregnant, the test will show by around the 10th day. False positives are rare, but false negatives are common. If it is negative, wait a couple days then test again. If it is positive, it is most likely true. See the doctor if that is the case. Good luck!
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You "freaked out" so you had sex and fell asleep! Omg! That must have really turned him on! What a great "goodby" party!
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lol thanks!
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Theres a large possibility that you are of course. Depends if you were ovulating (thats when its most likely). Theres also morning after pills, which isnt abortion because the egg hasnt been fertilized so its just like setting up a blockade around the egg. Pregnancy tests usually cant be taken until 5-8 days after intercourse, and morning after pills have to be taken relatively soon after, a few days at most i believe

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thanks so much!!!
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Of course. No trouble
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Let me check my Magic Eight Ball, I'll get back to you on that.

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... what is that supposed to mean??
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It means, HOW ARE WE TO KNOW.
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oh well that was.a stupid answer I got way better answers from smart people sorry
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you are a stupid.person songwriter370.
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No need to be rude people.
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you are just the same
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How am I being rude?
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@songwriter, why are you calling hippy stupid ? He's not the one that might be prego because he can't control his urges !
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I don't think she's too smart huntbill.
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das true my friend
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sorry I am just stressed just don't talk to me
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oh too bad... i can talk im not the one who impulsively makes $hitty decisions
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The poor decision was already made. She knows it wasn't a good decision. How does continuing to insult her change anything? What are you trying to accomplish? She said she knew the consequences. She admitted it was a mistake. She posted this to get help. We aren't doctors, and you are right in saying it was a crappy decision. But she and everyone else already know that. Have you ever made a huge mistake? I know I have. We all do at some point. We are human. Instead of choosing to put people down (even if what you are saying is true) let's try to be compassionate. The world would be a much better place.
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The world would also be a much better place w/o so many dumbasses on it
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Just saying that your insults aren't changing anything, so what's the point to keep repeating the same thing over and over. Does making snide comments on the internet and being a cyber bully make you feel good? I have made dumb-a** decisions before too.
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havent we all
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Yep. Most definitely :D
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But they aren't as drastic as getting pregnant on a whim. Most are things like getting hurt in one way or another (definitely me, like every sing frickin DAY) or not doing homework (hey look it's me) or something.
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This person is playing Russian roulette with her sexual desires without taking into consideration the consequences...........another unplanned and unwanted child being brought into this world.
MY answer was to the fact that how could we POSSIBLY know if she is pregnant. A doctor couldn't even tell if she was pregnant, in this short period of time, for goodness sake.
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You mr. hippy are quite correct. I agree w/ you
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Thanks.
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Don't worry about it. The chance of actually getting pregnant after sex is quite low. So large bet says that you are fine. Wait for two weeks and get a pregnancy test from a pharmacy, then you'll know. Until then try not to think about it.

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ok thanks!!!
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I agree with JustinCreed and E5s. It's a little soon to tell but any time you have sexual intercourse unprotected you are taking a chance of getting pregnant or getting an std. If you have to ask if you are pregnant and unsure of how the birds and the bees work then you need to be running to walmart, target, or the nearest plan parent clinic you can to get the Plan B. A baby will not keep a man neither will it keep a relationship together. Best of luck!

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You could be - but a little too early to tell ---- you could come over for a full exam - I would never leave you - Don't you think that having unprotected sex is awfully irresponsible -- and what about him / hit and split - real winner - Lets hope and Pray your not --

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Maybe yes, maybe no. We don't know if you took precautions or not. Any time you have sex, there's a chance of getting pregnant.

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now here we have a stoner

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Did you use a condom and do you take birth control?

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