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How to catch a cheater in the act

I believe my husband is cheating but can't get proof because he's too good. How can I cash l catch him in the act?

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first lol,
Second camera.
or you could say you poisoned his food and you won't give him the antidote until he admits to what he's done.
Btw dont' really poison the food.

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LilKaos
hi sally baby
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what in the world <_>
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LilKaos
sorry that was meant for somebody else!
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Why is it funny to you?
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what?
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Well you lol'd and I wanted to know why you thought cheating was funny.
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Get a pro disguiser and change your look and go where he goes and say what ever you want see what he does.

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I believe you should do what T_R_M suggested. Since you're his wife you can ask him to do things with you and you would get to see if he's really cheating or not. If he turns ya down on the offer you know he's good but if he accepts... tell him to pack his bags and his stuff is to the left!

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thx
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no prob
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Cheaters dot com.
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Maybe it's not that he's so good at hiding his whereabouts & whatnots, but that he's actually BUSY at work & not cheating on you?

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He hides his phone, it's in lock when before I could go through it, he comes home an hour late saying he needed alone time but I'm home 24/7 with a newborn and 7 yr old cooking and cleaning. I need a break too. When he comes home he does nothing to help me. He'll stay up later downstairs by himself but he oh so tired. Now he accusing me of cheating!
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Well I wasn't suspicious until you said he thinks you're cheating. My husband plays games on the computer alone,he also locks his phone(but he has always done this. He thinks of it as it being just his. He doesn't care if I look through it occasionally but doesn't want me snooping. I don't push it bc he doesn't mind if I look through it. If he refused I would take his phone until he agreed to unlock it, or take it to the store to unlock it.), he doesn't help a lot with the kids. Why would he think you're cheating? Maybe your husband is just being a jerk and if you have a nb may be over hormonal( btdt). Our hormones make us think some pretty nasty things. Take his phone and insist he show it to you(he doesn't need to hide things from you), and make him spend time with you and the kids. He doesn't get alone time since he already gets it on the way home. Try setting a date night and go out together weekly. Also find a way to be alone at least one hour every day. You both need alone time. You both need time to go out alone with friends. And you both need to go out together. Make a calendar.
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I tried talking to him like two mature adults telling him how I felt ( without yelling or raising my voice) he got all defensive and started throwing out accusations that I'm cheating he been knew I was and but he stuck by me and blah blah blah. I was so confused I'm thinking huh? I don't have time to cheat. I'm home all day everyday. Taking care of the kid's, I don't drive so I'm not going anywhere and besides we live with his dad. So how do I have time to sleep around.
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You do not need proof. You just need file for divorce and get out of there.

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I honestly think that's what I'm going to do. I've been through too much and a cheating man I just don't have time for
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Hire a private investigator.

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Who cares. If he isn't cheating your constant paranoia will doom your marriage anyway. Let it ride, enjoy him and trust him. Then if he is he will relax and get stupid.

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I care! I'm not going to stay in a marriage where the other isn't being faithful then accusing me of cheating. It's a lot more to it then that.
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I care. If you don't enjoy your marriage you won't have one. I'm telling you that when you let go of the hunt he will make mistakes and get caught. You have him on high alert. If he is doing it he will get caught. Your change in attitude will not go in noticed and he will get worried. I promise.
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Unnoticed.
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Ok I get what you're saying
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Good luck babe. I hope he isn't cheating.
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Thank you
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you can use gps on his phone.

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