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he hurt me and leave me after 3 years relationship, i still love him, my marks in univ got too bad, and am crying inside, what can i do?

i love him when am 16y, now am 22y, cannot forget him, am too week now, am single from 2 years and can not full in love with anyone else, i made too much relation but that for nothing!!!, so i was gone to his home to say hi, he was shoced and didn't answer me!
so am upset and pain killin me!!!
am stupied i love him

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I agree with varcal and dextermules. No it won't be easy. And yes you might feel weak now but in the end losing out on life and your grades and the chance for actual happiness with someone that isn't going to treat you poorly is much better than dwelling on this guy. No it's not something you want to hear. We were all raised on happily ever afters and the guy is the prince on the white horse and kiss and you are married all is well. But life does not work like this. Do not subject yourself to settle for anything less. Not in the slightest. You are a wonderful person, you work hard, are you really going to let some jerk who is no longer even part of your life ruin your future? Are you going to let this guy ruin the next 60-80 years of your life? Focus on your studies and remember, he passed up a good thing and there are much better people out there than him. Other forms of therapy include working out, hanging out, though personally I like listening to empowering music or doing something artistic. There might not be any princes left in the world really but do you really want them? There's a lot of inbreeding there ^_^

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You need to follow your heart. If he left you after 3 years in the relationship and does not want you back then it is best to move on. You are young and you will learn there will be someone else who appreciates you even more. Learn from this relationship as to what you expect from your next relationship. Stay positive and keep your chin up. When you least expect it someone will enter you life and your whole world will change. Simply keep your faith. Yesterday is history. Tomorrow is a mystery.

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Loving someone is never stupid. I know from personal experience that you can totally love someone who is not right or good for you. If you just broke up then yes it certainly will be hard to forget him and be able to let go of him. Surround yourself with good friends and try to keep yourself busy. Work on making you a better person. If you and him were meant to be then it will all work out in the end. Don't worry about finding someone new right now worry about making yourself a better person. Maybe try a new class or join a gym with friends. Don't let a man control you or your feelings.

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Time will heal your heat. I know its been three years but sometimes thats not enough. Most of the time people change after high school. Maybe he has changed.

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I was in a three year relationship too, and the last year he changed due to having family problems, we stop doing any of the normal fings couples do, like going out he'd stay over and we would make love and then I woundnt hear from him for a day or 2,,,, I got over that took him back and know he's got visit his dad in Canada and its been 2 weeks he hasn't rang me? He rang me wen he gor there and that's it?.. Is it over between us..... If I ring he don't answer,,,, I need some advice bcuz all I do is cry at home 24/7 dnt eat or sleep

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