dont mind them, they already dont like you so their loss, they wont be with you in a couple of years so you do you and let them keep hating, jealousy is the ugliest trait, to dont be ugly! =) be you and let them be ugly!!!
As long as it doesn't get physical ignore it. If you start paying attention to it the situation will worsen. If half the school likes you that's still a lot of people on your side. Kids try to prove they are cool by picking on those they deem weak. Be strong, stand your ground if challenged but try to focus on those that like you and let those that don't eat each other alive. Be positive.
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First, why do you think they hate you? If it is something that you feel you want to change about yourself - go for it - but since it is only half of the school, befriend the other half - unless you want to fall into the same pattern as those you state hate you. KIds are cruel just because they want to be and once they sense they can get to you they continue to do so. Try to find a role model that shared this same situation and imitate them (more like the character Jamie in the movie "A Walk to Remember" but definitely not like "Carrie"). As stated above, in a few years they won't matter. Rise above it but always remember how it felt to be in your position so you don't do it to others.
Hey i am going through the samw thing right now and i know how you feel. Just ignore them. I hang out with my best friends ( only have 2 best friends) and ignore the whole school. If anyone ever meakes fun of you ust ignore it. And if anything happens to u or someone says something to you in front of your friends if they dont stand up for u thats means they r not your best friends for real because my bffs stamd up for me when a bully, bullies me. They starts joking and go like no whatever your name is allowed n school and all. Just make some true friends and you will be alrght and the bullies will just fall into your hands! Hope this helped! Thanks for reading!
I agree as long as it doesnt get physical ignore it, it sometimes can feel that "half" the school ignores you, but really what difference does that make, that is just life in general anyway..as long as you know who you are, and you follow your own way, and hang out with people that accept you as you are and are not influenced by peer pressure to do things you dont want or normally would not do, then you will be fine...
When you are out of school, you will quickly realize just how little impact those students have on your life. The older I get, the smaller the circle of people for whom their opinion matters to me becomes. Listen to those who love you, forget about those who don't, life is too short to waste on people like that. And the best revenge is living well.
Don't know what grade your in but you won't be around these people long. I don't contact many of my high school friends at all. And if you have a couple of good friends that's all you really need. Good friends are people who don't care about anything but hanging out with you cause they like you. All those other people are just a waste of time on your part. Culture the friendships you hold dear and trash the rest. And if you still have half the school as friends I'm impressed. That's way more than I had. And focus on grades. School gets jobs not popularity contests. That's why we go to school.