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Why won't my parents let me sleep with my girlfriend?

We are both 18 1/2 and I understand when we are in their house and everything but even when we are in like a hotel and my parents also sleep in the same room. It's obviously not sex because they know we wouldn't do it with them there. We have been together almost a year and are most likely getting an apartment for school, why is it such a big deal if we sleep together, even if we are adults, not in their house and they're in the room?

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They're just being parents. They still see you as their 'little boy'. My parents were the same way when I turned 18 and was ready to have some 'fun' with my girlfriend. But you are a young adult now, they can no longer control you. When you both get that apartment, it shouldn't be a problem. Your parents can't be there 24/7 with you. Best of luck.

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It's immoral. You should be married before having sex. So many young adults think it's okay just because many others are doing it but it's not okay. Sin is still sin. Read the Bible. I Corinthians 6:9-20.

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It's not about sex, all I want to do is lay with her because I haven't seen her in 3 months due to college.
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Its not a 'sin'.. why would someone read the bible anyway?
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God is fake
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Respect.. I am sure once u get your own place u can do what u want.

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Because your not married!!! And if your not married it's inappropriate. No matter what age you are.

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Well maybe they are afraid you will try something, try to make it clear that you just want to lay down with her not have sex. But if i misunderstood you're question, you are still way too young. No matter how much you think you are grown up, just wait. Do it after you are married

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My parents won't let me date till grow up n get a job.i'm unluckiest.

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Mysterio once ur 18 u can date no matter what u have to follow the rules in the house but outside the house u can do whatever
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You can do it in an apartment they cant control you outside the house because your a adult

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