He sounds like a domineering man/guy...not someone to play around with or get involved with. Any guy that treats you ill and wont show you respect and treat you like a lady is nothing but a mean cold hearted man. Best thing to do is avoid him, tell him your not at all interested, if it still does not work tell him your in a relationship (rids the guy faster, usually), etc. Try not to fulfill his ego, he deserves nothing if he treats you wrongly.
he more than likely likes you. the reason he's doing that is because he's afraid of the girl's, or your, response if he comes off to nice or too weird and the only way he can do it is by being mean. helpful???