It's hard when you lose a friend, i have lost a few. i found that by talking to other friends about them and even talking to a councoler is a great way to relese the greif and carry on. You'll always miss them but remember, they are always with you in your heart. Remember all the good times ya'll had and keep them with you whereever you go.
To deal with death you should first pray to ask God to see you through the grieving moment and to console your heart. Take some time to adjust to the loss of the friend but don't over think to a condition of being stressed or depressed. Don't stay isolated as you will end up crying or being so sad, therefore engage in talking to other people like friends and families. Make sure you help where you can to see the funeral process goes as expected since this was a person dear to you.
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Different people deal with death in different ways, but the way that works for everyone is this, all you have to do is accept the fact that he/she has passed on and you will miss them but life goes on and you have to let go of their death and hold on to their good memories. You feel pain now but with friends and family around you will be okay in time.
I'm so sorry about your loss! I think everyone deals with that kind of loss in many different ways. How ever you deal with your loss remember that you're not alone. We've all lost someone near or dear to us. By simply ALLOWING yourself to grieve is a good first step - it is for me anyway. Then reach out to other friends and family who may be suffering your friends loss. You can share good memories and you can gain strength from knowing others are grieving too. I wish you peace.
If you were christians just be happy he or she is away from sorrow and pain and is waiting for you. Know that he or she is in a better place. I guess pretty good advice from an an 11 turnin 12 year old.i went through the same thing in 5th grd. Last yr
Oh my god I'm so sorry thats terrible!:'( my best advice for you would to just stay positive. That's key in life! Think of all the good times you and your friend had together. She/he is in a better place now:) I'm sure this person will always stay in your hearts forever. Try not to mourn over this death to badly, even though they were your best friend. This girl I knew, she passed away a couple of years ago, she was truly amazing. I always remember her because of her great personality... Her birthday was a week before mine. Anyways, my point is even though your going through a really tough time now keep your head up and think positive. If you need someone to talk to I'm here. I really hope you get through this tough time. Pray to God and just talk to Him, I know that when doing that it'll make you feel much better. God bless and stay well! :) <3<3
I'm so sorry for your lost. I have had a number of losses in my life. As much as you may not want to hear this, it just takes time. When I was in the 10th grade a very dear guy friend had a minor spat with his mom (about an over due book), went into his bedroom, sat on the floor, out his pillow over his head, put a gun to the pillow into the pillow and pulled the trigger. When I was 37 my mom died from lymphoma. In 2002 my brother died of cancer. In 2007 my father in law died of cancer, a bit over a year later my mother in law died of cancer. A year ago last November my brother in law (sisters husband) died of cancer. A few months later my brother in law (husbands brother) was hit by a car and died. All of these deaths and all I can tell you is it just takes time.
First of all so sorry for your loss. :( People grieve in many different ways. Do whatever helps you. If that means crying, screaming, writing, drawing.. Whatever helps you to feel better. My grandfather passed away 3 years ago and we were really close. I ran, And turned my iPod to the old country music he loved to listen to and remembered all the good times we had. That's what is most important, remember all the good times. Hope this helps and again, so very sorry for your loss. It's never easy losing someone close to you.
So sorry to hear about your loss. I have been through alot of this lately. Remember the good times you had together. Be around someone that understands you and will listen to you. It's very hard but you will get through this. Just remember he/she is always in your heart.