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How do I forget someone who I don't wanna be with and I hardly know but I think of them and I have a girlfriend?

I started having these terrible thoughts about what it would be like to be with another girl that I only kinda like but I don't really have any love or like for. I have a beautiful, loving girlfriend (long distance, however) but we manage. I don't wanna have anything to do with this other girl that's at my school and I hardly know but she's in two of my classes and I don't wanna think about her anymore cos it hurts when I do.
ALSO: I PROMISED MY GIRLFFRIEND I WOULD NOT BREAK UP WITH HER AND I DONT WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HER COS I LOVE HER AND I REALLY DO NOT UNDER AMY CIRCUMSTANCES WANT TO BE WITH THIS OTHER GIRL AND EVEN IF I DIDNT HAVE A GIRLFRIEND IM NOT SURE ID WANNA BE WITH HER. I LOVE ,Y GIRLFRIEND AND I REALLY HARDLY LIKE THIS OTHER GIRL

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Yes .. Cause she it's your real loves I understand you know.. When the girls sad and painful how scary.. And it's make other people hard she it's person same is please promise don't break up with her and should gave love for her so much and your loves will protect her :) and do not have other girls it's very bad .. you should love the someone by one side and that loves should be your loves always and stuck it please promise ?^^

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Dude this is normal everyone thinks these things

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Ive heard that many times before, and I understand. But my girlfriend says she NEVER feels like that about anyone else. I really don't wanna think about this other person. I'm a very obsessive person and it hurts me...
But thanks for trying to help. :)
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Your girlfriend is lieng then. Because I'm a girl and I know that we all think. Shed bang channing tatum in a heartbeat don't let her lie. Everyone feels it and its natural it will go away soon enough
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Look just because you have these feelings doesn't mean you have to act on them. Don't feel guilty, it's just a fact of life. You are devoted to your girlfriend, so give yourself a break, and don't worry about it.

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this a way of life do what you feel what you have to do she dose not have to know if u dont feel it with the girl u think about then know you know that your girlfriend is the 'ONE'

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