"I Am Woman Hear Me Roar"? I don't know if that is the name of a song or book though. (Could just be the motto written in Latin inscribed over the front entrance to the N.O.W. headquarters and on all their organizations stationary) You could try "Man, I feel like A Woman" by Shania Twain. Nothing like a song like that to make ME undergo a psychological castration or at least feel inadequate!)
"My drinking problem left today" -she packed up all her things and went away. Hank Williams III It's actually about a man choosing to drink rather than keep the woman that loves him. Perhaps it will help.