Oh My Gods!!!! Your pregnant at 14??? Not good. Go to a doctor? Look, I don't know how to help, but someone to talk to is always a good thing. Anyway, I know you'll be pretty scared to tell your parents, but I can't really help. Glad I could at least talk, and good luck!
Welcome to the rest of your life. You made the choice to be a big girl now you have to deal with the big people consequences of your actions. Take one more test to be sure, tell your parents, THEN tell the dad. I say to tell your parents first because I would hate for him to talk you into an abortion. You are about to go for the ride of your life, but at least in 18 years you can look back and smile as you send them off to collage.
Well, telling your parents is just gonna be one of the first of many many hard things to do. The best thing you can do for your baby & yourself is tell your parents asap so they can help make sure you are getting the things you need, like prenatal pills and get you a dr.
If you are really pregnant, you have my deepest concerns. If you have a favorite teacher, a priest or minister etc, you can discuss the issue with them first. You need to address the pregnancy first, but i hope you do not date till you are mature enough to in the future. Right now the baby is the victim. Please make good choices because there are many out there for you. Take the advice of your teacher, whoever. She/he might be able to help you talk to the Planned Parenthood Organization as well as your family and the dad to be..God bless
First go to a free women's clinic. They will give you a pregnancy test. Second ask for help into looking into all of your options. Do you have a really good friend who will not gossip? ( that may be tough) how about a trusted aunt or sibling? Maybe someone can go to comfort you. If in the end you decide to keep the baby ( absolutely YOUR choice!!) sit your parents down and tell them you have big news and it will be very hard for you and ask them not to speak until your done explaining. This will probably be one of the hardest things in your life, but life does go on! Good luck with this.
hey,well just tell your parents first,if u were old enough to have sex,then b old enough to front reality and ur parents.after u tell them they can prob help u tell ur boyfriend and his parents.all of this aint gona be easy.but o well u wanted to b grown.good luck.and next time just think very careful bfore u take such a serious step.
You have to tell them and soon. If you decide to keep it or give it up for adoption you need to be under a doctor's care to take care of you and the baby as soon as possible. If you choose an abortion you only have a certain window. It's not gonna be easy but you decided to have sex knowing it could happen so now you need to face the consequences.
Tell your parents their reaction is never as bad as you imagine it will be. Say that you used protection and that it was a huge mistake. You just wanted to see what it felt like and again you were wrong for doing it. Tell mom first and get her to make a Dr. appointment. I'm sorry that you had to learn this the hard way. But how you handle this will prove that you are at least responsible enough to bring it to your parents attention. Good luck!
First, find out for sure if you really are pregnant. If you aren't, resolve to be more responsible in the future and don't have sex. No form of birth control is 100%, though some are close. If you're not ready to have a baby, and no one is at 14, then you shouldn't be having sex. If you are pregnant, you're going to have to tell your parents soon. Talk to an adult you can trust and ask that person to help you talk to your parents. The guy needs to be more responsible too and have a conversation with his parents. When you play with fire, you can get burned.
Okay girl let talk WeaponAdict is not smart at all abortion is murder I can see y you would have abortion if you were to get very sick from or (die) but all in all just talk to everyone tell them the truth it is hard but they will love you no mater what.
Ok. Just calm down and talk. Double and triple check. Make sure that ur bf is supportive. Tell ur parents and say I'm so sorry. It's a choice for u and ur bf to make if u want to keep the child or not. But be warned. U will be judged at school. U have my deepest concern I wish u the best!!
Get an abortion, If you are ok with doing that. And by the way people, don't give me a debate. Cause I don't listen. Somehow you gotta tell your parents though, I suggest saying it really fast and then run out the door. Good luck to you.
Abortion is NOT murder.its a choice. This country is already OVER populated and unemployed as it is! I don't know about the rest of you hard working Americans, but, I don't want to be working my butt off to pay someone elses way because of their irresponsibility!
well you have to tell it to them one way or an other and you have to ways two ways tell them that you and your boyfriend have a deep dating and you wanted to have a baby and you are having one or just wait til it close to when you are due them tell them
well , first im not gunna judge you. check with a local doctor , go after school and say you went to a friends. have them do a test or give you a pregnancy test. know whats going on for sure. and when the time comes , well talk to your mom first , shell understand more than your father. then for him to tell his parents the straight up truth that he got you pregnant.. you all made a mistake , its true.... well i hope i helped a bit, and can you answer my question of " can she possibly be pregnant" ? please D':
Ya you can have sex as you said to one of your answerees and you can also have a baby... That's what sex is for, MARRIED!!! People who are ready not little childrens. Take responsability and tell everyone you were free wheeling enough to have sex and get pregnant you should have enough courage to tell your family
Don't get a abortion,i know what your going throw im 13 and pregnant and im not giving my baby up,im taking responsibility and if you don't want to tell your parent's just ask a friend to tell them and stay away from your house for a min.
Tell the father of the baby first. It's scary but it's best you tell him alone before you go to any of your parents that way you can break the ice together as a support system. Try not to wait too long. If you decide that u don't want to have the baby the sooner the better but I really don't stand for abortions.
Sorry about your situation. some of the advice people have given is good. Mostly the ones telling you to be straight with your folks and get help from a doctor or councilor. You are going to find some people are going to be harsh and judgmental. just ignore their crap. They are not trying to help. You are not a bad person. you are just young and going through something that many others have as well. The one thing I would say is to learn from this situation and do whatever it takes to not get pregnant again. Sorry if this seems obvious but unfortunately many girls in your position end up pregnant again. If I was you I would make a promise to myself never to have unprotected sex again. No matter what. I wish you the best sister. Things will get better.
First off, you shouldn't be having sex at 14. I'm 14 and me and my boyfriend aren't even thinking about sex right now. Just come out and tell them! If their mad. Their mad. But I got to warn you, delivering a baby at a young age is extremely dangerous!