Submit a question to our community and get an answer from real people.
Submit

everyone I need help! very serious question! it has to do with the well being of a child please read on for more info...

An ex friend of mine who turned out not to be who I thought she was has 8 year old son anyways we found out that she is a master manipulator a pathological liar and is always taking things from others and conning people into helping her we also found out she's a hoarder this child was and possibly still living in sub standard conditions the place they left behind was infested with rats, rotten food everywhere, dirty clothing and garbage even used feminine products all over the bathroom mold in the shower you name it this child is 8 years old so obese that he looks like a 12 year old and because his mother is always keeping him out of school because she has separation anxiety not emotionally mature where he should be at this point instead of acting like a 8 year old he acts like a 4 year old the problem is they left in the middle of the night from Washington State and other somewhere in North Carolina I am worried for this child what do I do

Report as

You need to contact CPS, or Child Protective Services, with your concerns. Here is a link to the CPS department in Washington State, if that's where you're at. Tell them where you believe they are traveling too, and all of the things you included in this post. If you have proof, like pictures of the mess, include that.

http://www.dshs.wa.gov/endharm.shtml

Helpful (3) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (1)
Report as
Thanks I'd hate to take him away from his home but his mother needs to get her act together as does his father he is not saying they left a lot of pissed off people behind in Washington and I am worried for his safety
Report as
Add a comment...

You need to contact social services ASAP

Helpful (2) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...
Username_not_listed

Call the board of heath and social services on them.

Helpful (2) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

Hoarder --- County and or City Code Enforcement -- Fire Department ---- Child Abuse 911 and or Local Police ----- Child Neglect D.F.S // Your County Department of Family Services -- County Health Department ----- Child Left Alone Call 911 - One Call Does it ALL ---

Helpful (1) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...

I hate to say this but if she left and you have no idea where, I doubt the authorities can help you. If you have some idea as to where she is going you might be able to call ahead and have them keep an eye out for her. But if she lied o the past, she may very well lied about where she is going.

If you know of any other friend of hers you may try to contact them and lie to get information and see if you can get a new address.

Helpful (2) Fun Thanks for voting Comments (4)
Report as
All i know is shes about 30 min from Jacksonville
Report as
You can contact the authorities in Onslow County NC and let them know you are concerned for the boy. Give the mother and the boy's name. Hopefully she will have enrolled him in school there and they can track her down and do a wellness check on the boy.
Report as
Awesome thank you! Can I do it anonymously? Or do I have to give my name and info
Report as
You will probably need to tell them your name, but they cannot disclose it to her. All the have to say is they got a report.
Report as
Add a comment...

Talk to CPS.

Helpful Fun Thanks for voting Comments (0)
Report as
Add a comment...
Do you have an answer?
Answer this question...
Did you mean?
Login or Join the Community to answer