The doctor should have given her pain meds to help post op. Do you mind saying what type of surgery she had? You can try to comfort her by bringing her something to eat or drink, blankets, helping her walk to the bathroom and keeping your siblings occupied so that they do not disturb her. Letting her rest and not worry about household chores is the best medicine right now.
love support and food is all that one needs oh and if you can confectionery brands are bad and slow down recovery time but It does increase the pleasure pheromones in the brain and that helps eleviate the pain it's your choice which ever one you choose
That recently happened to my mom. :( theres not much you can do but let herself heal. But you can help her around the house. I mean she just got out of surgery so she won't have the strength to do it. Help her with her medicine.That is if she needs any.
Sit by her bed and hold her hand and pray for her, read Psalms 23 and 91 to her. Ask her what to do. Leave a bell by her bed so she can ring for you in an emergency. It might be too hard to get out of bed by herself to get to the bathroom. God bless you both.
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trust a guy that has had over 30+ on his abdomen... some ginger ale so not to get dehydrated, her favorite blanket ----- toss in dryer till lil toasty laid over her and this is where u and mom get to know each other..... if it is stomach or front side, chest, or belly area a nice puffy pillow have her up on a side with pillow between her and the bed and same if it is back area, this way when she rolls she doesn't roll on cut without pillow support.. and if she has to sneeze or cough assuming the front side. Have her squeeze that puffy pillow against the stomach or chest and hold on because it is gonna hurt but pillow will pad the pain a lil bit more than u can imagine...... give mom lots a love and spoil her this is her time to be waited on....... ya never know how much u will miss it till the feeling gets taken from you.... Love is the secret ingredient..... I like answer b4 me also....