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i have belly button length strawberry blonde (red) hair and thinking of coloring it. thinking blonde. any ideas or should i keep it?

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I think you should keep it it sounds like a nice pretty colour,i wish i had red hair but instead i have light golden hair but thats fine..:)

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yours sounds beautiful! and thanks made me smile(:
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Thank you!:)That cheered me up,you are always welcome!:)
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Keep it -

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keep it

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realy?
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yepper
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Yeah I second that.. I love redheads.. as long as you're not a ginger it's very attractive

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whats wrong with gingers?
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they have no souls, and they carry gingervitus
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-_- wtf?!
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http://www.jlowman.com/Gingerkids.htm you might find that useful..International Gingervitus Foundation
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WHAT THE HELL THATS ALL FAULSE AND BULL!! NONE OF THATS IS TRUE! u know they say one day gingers might killoff the human race to improve population of gingers.. so watch your back your now on my list (; have a nice day!
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noo its those canadians that we should be watching there too nice im watching them ???
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Actually no.. it's proven that within 100 years there will be no more gingers.. and if you don't believe that site google it, it's widely known.. if you are a ginger you should know you're going extinct
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by the waythey proved it wrong!! (and canadians are to nice! lol) and since when are things on the internet true?! huh?! by they way u should update on your knowledge! and ps gingers do have souls if we didnt we wouldnt be able to hate people and want to come kill them in their sleep...and i wan to do that right now so ...does thay mean i have a soul?
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by the year 2020 mexicans will out number white people
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lol (:
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Will gingers kill EVERYONE, or only people who are mean to gingers? Cause I'm nice to them.
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gingers arent that scary :)
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lol only mean people(;
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Why not change it up a little? You could always try black or brown too! Brown with blonde highlights might look nice. Or maybe keep it and see how it looks once it grows out. It might be better to dye it when it's longer. All based on opinion, though, just some ideas.

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don't try black can't get off
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Hmm okay then stick with brown or lighter colors pretends what dye you're using.
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okay thx (:
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Np my sisters a cosmetologist so I'm just saying what I think she would say
Best of luck!
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Might just be me (probably is) but I find jet black hair very attractive. Idk why and many people don't do it but when I see it it defiantly catchs my eye

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Red hair is beautiful. Keep it natural. It's hard to get the natural color back, especially if you dye it dark. Bleaching blonde will fry your hair.

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Hi, Eve. :) How's it going?
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Good! and you?
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Great! :) I just want to know, do you know what a narcissist is? Not just a selfish person, but a person with the DISEASE Narcissism? I'm asking because you're in psychology.
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Yes, it's a personality disorder, not a mental disorder, and not a disease. It could be paired with sociopath-ism or psychopath-ism and those are mental disorders.
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Oh I see. Sorry for getting it wrong, haha, but thanks for the info.
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Well, there's this guy (Derek) my brother hangs out with and sees as a friend, but I think Derek is a narcissist. I also think he knows I think that. How do I KNOW if he's a narcissist, and how do I handle his "silent" attacks toward me?
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Honestly narcissism isn't too uncommon nowadays (unfortunately) I recommend you just steer clear of him. Keep in mind that someone who is that self centered will never fully appreciate another person's company or love unless they work passed it. They will use others and step on whoever they have to in order to get more satisfaction and pleasure out of life for themselves. Being around them is draining. Even saying anything to defend yourself or to knock them down could easily end up worse for you, because they simply don't care.

As I said, it's best to just stay away and hope that your brother comes to is senses. I bet you that your brother will realize that he's being stepped on or he'll get sick of his personality and walk away eventually.
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I hope you're right about my brother coming to his senses. I wish I could stay away from Derek completely but my brother brings him around sometimes. That's when Derek harasses me right in front of my family without them noticing. -_-
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Maybe you could bring something up to your parents or other family member about it. Try talking to your brother.
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Tried it, it does no good because I don't know how to explain what Derek does. I'm not good at explaining anything.
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You know how people with personality disorders have intricate ways of dominating people? Whenever I try to explain to a family member what Derek does to me I say it like, "He didn't let me tip the waitress because he wanted to instead."
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Hahaha ohh I know what you mean. My roommate in college was like that. Everyone thought she was amazing and so sweet. Only I knew the truth. But when I tried to explain how horrible she was to other people, they would think I was crazy or something. They all saw it for themselves eventually though. Hopefully they'll all see for themselves soon too.
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Oh my gosh, you had to LIVE with her? That must have been horrible, I'm sorry. But it's good to know we understand each other, I don't come across this that often. Haha. It seems like society is severely under-educated about personality disorders, despite how severe they are.
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And yeah, it's horrible when people say things like "Why don't you like them? They're so sweet." Just... yeah whatever. Lol.
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Lol! Yeah people like to categorize everything into some sort of disorder though. Maybe we're just all people, and some of us have flaws? And some people a just freaken jerks. hahaha

But yeah, I pushed her into moving out... lol
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I'm confused about whether there are too many categories. Consider ADHD: sometimes it seems like a ridiculous excuse to give meds to kids who otherwise won't pay attention, but then again, what if YOU couldn't pay attention and really couldn't help yourself? What then?
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I just don't know.
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But about personality disorders, I think it definitely needs recognition. People are suffering from major harassment and their best defense is "She stared at me." It can't be properly voiced and it's so sad.
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yeah I suppose. But when you diagnose someoneone with something it effects them on a mental level and they can start using it as an excuse for things
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Right, it confirms the problem.
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exactly!
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Then again, don't narcissists have to realize their problem before fixing it? I guess it could go either way: once they're diagnosed, it either gets better or worse.
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oh my gosh... it depends on if you are interested in this, but since your hair is so long, what if you did an ombre from dark chesnut brown to like sandy blonde/light blonde?? I personally think that would look super cool!!

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that sounds pretty!
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Cut it off, and donate it to "Locks Of Love", then it would be easier, and cheaper to dye it if you want to.
If you don't want to do that. okay.
But, tell me what's wrong with your hair color?
Sounds beautiful. Why would you want to change it?

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thank you (: made me smile
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Always makes me feel better, if I can make someone smile.
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Strawberry blonde is the perfect color, my favorite. Keep it that way.

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i think i might idk
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keep it

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a belly button hair?

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Really?
How long is your belly button hair?
Strawberry blonde is more interesting than blonde.

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Keep it! It's good to stay with your original hair color. Originality is where it's at. also you gotta think about the cost to actually do this and color your hair! it's gunna be over 200 bucks you know.

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I'm a redhead as well! When I was younger, I wanted to dye it black because I was tired of being different from everyone else; now, I'm so glad I didn't. Embrace your red hair!

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Like Anne of Green Gables.
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keep it

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you should keep it if you are into it.

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Keep it, girl! Go redheads!

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