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So... I met this girl on a phone chat line. At first we were just talking as friends, but then it got real. I have no idea of what she looks like, no pic phone. So all i can go off of is what she says and i really do think she is telling the truth. Every girl where i live is not my type, i have yet to meet her, and this girl is really seeming to be my type. And how it looks i might be able to see her over the summer. What should i do? Woman comments are needed but guys could chip in too

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If you like her, do you really care what she looks like? As I posted on a similar question last night, the most beautiful people that I have met,-----I have never seen, if you're happy, nothing else matters, not looks, not money, not anything!

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I like that:)
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Thanks, just the way I feel!
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I too, really like your answer, Angela. Hi! I only had to work 1/2 day today. Miracles do happen!
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Hi Jeff! Did you see my song to you?
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Yes, I've read it twice. Thank you! Can't put at title with it, though.
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Halestorm, familiar taste of poison!
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I know not of this band 'Halestorm' of which you speak. I know you are a big fan. I will have to check them out.
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Great band, female singer, saw them in concert, they rock!
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I don't listen to much new stuff. I do like Bullet for my Valentine and 5 Finger Death Punch, though. I will check out your band.
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Please do, I think you will like them :)
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Meet her sooner? Ask to video chat. If she refuses every time, you are probably being catfished... That is the best you can do until you meet in person

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You might want to be careful, maybe ask to see a picture of her (in a nice way) first. If you do meet her in the summer then just be cautious and make sure you go where there's a lot of people. Good luck.

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No pics? Never met? It's not real yet. She could be a dude, dude. Or worse...
If you go see her, meet in public at first. Yeah, you're a big strong man, but still... You don't want to end up being served to the neighbors as mincemeat.

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This "Phone Line Lady" probably has that "real" connection with every man she talks to. Have you seen that Family Guy episode when Lois has a phone line job? O.o Be careful.

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If u like her, than it wouldn't matter what she looks like. Love is not the way someone looks. It's the connection between 2 people, in person or not. but if u ask to see a pic of her, and she doesn't want to, u being played brother.

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Stop communicating with this person . It could be a man ! Here's why I say this . We all have a talent to say what people want to hear to get what we want . We learned this when we were babies and we cried for everything , then when we smiled people smiled back , it felt good and we continue to do this as adults . A person just wants to be in a relationship with you but NOT a real one . And it is a deceiving relationship . Your imagination is doing all of the work . Stop being picky in a relationship that is REAL , no one is perfect , not even you or me or anyone . Is easy to be perfect if your imagination is doing all if the work . God bless you . Love is enduring think about that deep and real

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This sounds like an episode of catfish ..but I mean I wouldn't give your hopes up your talkin to someone whom you have never met and people can tell you a lot of lies over the internet so stay skeptical till you meet her in person.

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