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Is me and my fiancee going to have separate lives?

It seems like this is what her mom truly wants. Like her mom can careless about wear and on my car. When is it going to stop?

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From the sounds of it, she won't stop because she still has control over her daughter because you guys are giving her control. You guys don't have to listen to her. Live your lives together. She shouldn't be with her mom anymore anyway if you two are engaged. You guys are adults now. Not children so her mother shouldn't have control over either of you.

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I agree 100%!!
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Thank you :)
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Why does my fiancees mother have control over her daughter but how can we put a stop to it?
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Because as a mother, she doesn't want her daughter to go out into the world and get hurt somehow. Parents are always protective ad to stop it, just tell her no when she says to don't do this or don't do that. Everyone her mother isn't happy with a decision you guys made and tells you to do something different, tell her no and go with your decision. Just stop doing what she says and worry about making your girl happy. Let her move in with you and you never have to worry about listening to her mom again. She may try to tell u what to do but she doesn't have that kind of power over you so you can just ignore her
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For one I have been by other women and I know what it is like to be hurt.
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Hurt I mean
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Everyone has been hurt. But if you want to be with her, then the mother part needs to change, but just because he hasn't hurt you doesn't mean that she can't. Everyone can hurt. But living like this with make it hard on you
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Yup especially her mom doubted me before I met her. I didn't know what to do cause one kept making promises to me. And leading me on. I backed out a few times. Cause I was confused.
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Parents don't like seeing their child grow up. They want them to stay they're baby forever. She just needs to let her know that she can't have control over you guys so you won't get hurt.
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But does her mom really care that if I get scard for life?
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She doesn't care much from the sounds of things. She just cares mostly for her daughter.
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Just tell your girl to have a talk with her mom. That's who really needs to do something.
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She's been trying to talk to her mom but when she does it's like talking to a brick wall and ends up into arguments and she really doesn't want it that way.
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