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Model better behavior, but at the same time don't get taken advantage of.

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ignore them
say i don't care
and be confident

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Took the words straight out of my train of thought ^_^
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lolz ( :
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just behave as they behave to you.

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distance yourself from them

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Selfish people get on my nerves =/ I tend to just ignore them and stay away from them, but sometimes I do get into arguments with my step dad who is a REALLY selfish man. Doesn't always end well, lol, so I'd suggest keeping your distance if you can't make a point to them. And yes, be confident! If you show them that you don't care, and that their attitude and opinions mean NOTHING to you, then you're better than they are and they will eventually leave you alone. Other people will realize their appalling behavior and stay away as well. I have had my clashes with many selfish people =P (not clashes as in fight, but I have encountered many)

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Just ignore them like you don't even know them .

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If the selfish person is close to you, or you can't entirely escape them, when they insist you give them something or agree with them about something, tell them in a strong voice that you will not give them your things or what they want. It will eventually slow them down. For example: in school they may want your pencil or paper. You say "No! These are mine. You should have brought your own." At work if they want you to do their work, or buy them lunch, again you insist they must do their work or buy their own lunch, etc.
Don't be afraid you are not being,"nice." Selfish people will continue to take advantage of you as long as you let them. The person you have to be nice to is yourself.

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Great answer, and so true =)
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yup it's a great one
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Yup yup ^_^
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karmarevenge

block them out of your life

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They are annoying I go up and in their face say you need to quit being selfish

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cut them from ur life unless u truely love them in which case just make sure that u set urself straight and dont act like them

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Islandlove

We don't need selfish people in our lives.Life is complicated enough and we don't need people who make it even more difficult for us.Do not be afraid to let them go and seek new friends.It sounds hard and difficult but it's the only way and we always bounce back NO MATTER WHAT.If you are surrounded by selfish loved ones then the only thing you can do is to just distance yourself from them but not cut them off completely.You can also try to talk with some that mean a lot to you,let them know in a very polite way how you feel and how their behavior is troubling you.

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That was deep...
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You think?
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