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Whats an okay age to lose my virginity?

Some of my friends lost theirs at age 12 but i think thats too young. by the way my religion doesnt say premarital sex is wrong. Is 15 or 16 okay? Also if it is, i dont want my boyfriend at that time to think i fail at sex or anything so is there a way i can like practice? i know it sounds really weird lol.

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yeah i lost mine this year and im 15. but my bestfriend lost hers when she was 13... and your right its too young.

and yeah you can "practice" haha this answer will sound weird but masturbating is a form of practice. and btw guys find it a huge turn-on when girls moan.. or so ive been told.

but you also dont want to regret it. so be sure its with someone you actually care about. thats what happened with my friend. as soon as they were done he got up and said "i dont like you anymore" and left. she still hurts form it. </3

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Yea you're right, about everything...
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12 is way too young if you ask me. 15, 16 is still pretty young. My advice would be to wait until you're with the one you're sure you want to be your first. Think that you're always ging to remember this person as your first and you don't want to regret that later. Wait until you're completely comfortable with that person to take a step like that with. Plus, its probably a good idea to wait until you're both of age so theres no possibility of law getting into it either. (another reason why 15, 16 is too young) and use protection when you do! Don't become another one of these girls on here asking if shes pregnant, thats annoying, we don't need another one.

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I think you should wait until you are ready to have a baby and take care of it. Even if you are very careful when having sex, there is still a chance that you could get pregnant. 18 years old at the earliest

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Even if he uses a condom?
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I'm sorry if my answer seemed harsh and I know it's really hard to wait that long, but it is so worth it! It's sad to see so many girls lose what should be their best time of thier lives and have to take care of a little baby. Most teenage mothers and thier children have a much tougher life. When you feel that you are physically and mentally ready fo sex, please talk to your doctor about the various kinds of birth control, and if your partner is a boy, make him wear a condom.
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yeah you can still get pregnant even if the guy uses a condom because the condom can break or rip and the sperm and leak into your vagina possily making you pregnant.
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