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HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP HELP How do I get the guy who likes me to stop following me everywhere!

So I went to one movie with this guy, and now he thinks he's allowed to shepherd me and follow me all day (we have the same classes tho) So what his guy is doing is just butting into ALL of my conversations! Just yesterday I told my friend, hey E(don't want to reveal name) I need to talk to you over there. And then you see the kid who likes me following E and I over to the corner. So I said, A (kid who likes me) this doesn't concern you so leave please. and he just stands there. It's too creepy for me. And EVERY conversation that I have with someone (except during lunch time) he does that to me! And when I am the first one out of the classroom, he follows me and literally runs to try and catch me when I'm talking with someone. E and I were talking about boys and he just butted into the conversation! Also everyone thinks were dating and I told everyone that were not, including him, and that I don't like A more than a friend, but he still follows me around. What the heck can I do! It's starting to creep me out. He's also calling me on my cell phones more lately. What can I do about this?

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FIRST of allln this guy has a serious problem. talk with ur parents they can if u feel ok. Talk with school. n they can make it where if he don't leave u alone he can be suspended. now since he's calling ur cell. more. that too is serious. you need to b courageous n tell ur mom or dad or any adult relative u trust bout this. I don't wanna scare u. but some guys like him. start out that way. then end up doing harm to the girl. pls be safe. get help asap

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Tell him flat out to stop following you

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Next time he calls your cell have your Dad answer the phone.

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tell him you need some space and that he can't keep following you around like that cause it's giving people the wrong idea?
I hope I can help! (: He sounds a little of his rocker!

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If you have a smart phone you can block his calls
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Take him somewhere alone and tell him nicely that you don't want him to follow you but before ask him why he is following you to see if you can solve it. If that doesn't work then tell a trusted adult.

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Don't go any where alone with him. Just take him aside in a public place
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Tell him "don't follow me, I need you to stand right here for now." He can be more like a pawn if you command him around.

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Tell him his stalker behavior is creeping you out.Say, I used to think you were pretty cool but now not so much. Quit following me!

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I know how you feel. Start up a conversation with him and ask him what he likes, but then you have to say you hate everything he likes. That should turn him away fast.

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Get him a collar and a leash and make him clean up after himself :)

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At my school someone got expelled for that "stalking"

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Tell him to buzz off you want nothing to have to do with him. Be honest!

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