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So lately ive been trying to change. i want to be a different me. a better me. i plan on changing new friends and all. any tips or advice?

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You can't change you! YOU are you! Be yourself, and you will be happy, healthy, and you will have friends that are true to you! You can try new hair dye and new make-up, but you can't change the person you are. Please, reconsider trying to get rid of your old friends for new ones; friendships are precious!

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move towns or schools and always smile ...that's the best way for people to start talkin to u ..... also u will prob get homesick and start missing yur old life .....I suggest have atleast one old friend to talk too.

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This is what I always say im going to do. Every new school year I always say im going to change, not talk about people, never lie, make new friends. I always stick to it for like a day and im back to my old self. My advice is just be yourself, who cares what people think of you and just be yourself. In your profile picture you look beautiful, dont worry about life too much. You will be fine

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aww thank you so much! im gunna just change my attitude about things.
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You can't change your personality but you can change the way you think and the way you dress, act nicer (or mean) find some new friends that are what you want your change to be and maybe move to another city, have a boyfriend (or even a girlfriend) that's different from what you are searching for. Good Luck

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thank you!
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sweetheart, if you want to change like a lifestyle then break away slowly not all at once and ask for help. God will help you and you can't change who you are but you can change what you do. just be you and think before you do. stay and just do what is right. don't move away and change your hair and name. you can't change you but you can change WHAT you do so just make the right choices and don't get new friends if you don't need to just think before you do. i asked the same thing before and learned that i can run but can't hide i can do what i want. i can change how i am but not who i am. just be careful. don't move. don't run just stop and think before you do. if you want to change then go ahead but don't leave others behind just be careful and what you do. don't be like me and move to home schooling. just change and turn around before you run.

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thank you sooo much! im just going to change my way of thinnking :)
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no problem. i learned never to run. so i hope you change the way you do before..........i am glad. just remember you can never change yourself only the way you act or do.
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okay i wll thank
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riderreed521
great. thank you greendoodle. it was a pleasure to help you. and happy holidays.
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nice to meet you as well. you too!
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As you get older you will realize that people are very ruthless . You are young and from your pic very pretty. This will benefit you but will also hinder you . Girls your age are mean mean mean an boys all boys will love you.
Advise......keep your secrets to yourself. Keep other peoples secrets to yourself. Never lie. Stay honest
just a question but are you being bullied ?
Another suggestion . Keep people guessing . Don't divulge everything about yourself on Facebook etc....
There is no mystery out there anymore . sad

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thank you so much!
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If this is so. Then meet people you want to be like, hangout with people that have interest in what you are looking to achieve. It will rub off on you.

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IGoByJessie

Days will come when you don't have the strength
All you hear is you're not worth anything
Wondering if you ever could be loved
And if they truly saw your heart they'd see too much

Your beautiful
Your beautiful
You are made for so much more than all of this
Your beautiful
Your beautiful
You are treasured You are sacred You are His
Your beautiful

Praying that you have the heart to find
Cause you are more than what is hurting you tonight
For all the lies you've held inside so long
They are nothing in the shadow of the cross

Your beautiful
Your beautiful
You are made for so much more than all of this
Your beautiful
Your beautiful
You are treasured You are sacred You are His
Your beautiful

Before you ever took a breath
Long before the world began
Of all the wonders He possessed
There was one more precious
Of all the earth and skies above
You're the one He madly loves
Enough to death

Your beautiful
You are made for so much more than all of this
Your beautiful
You are treasured You are sacred You are His
Your beautiful
Your beautiful
You are made for so much more than all of this
Your beautiful
You're beautiful
You are treasured, You are sacred, You are His

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Hope this helps! ! God bless :) Btw that song is Beautiful by Mercyme
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I myself have been trying to change but I know I can't do it without the Lord help bc we can't do it alone

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Yup so true. Star! :)
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You lived in tennesse?

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i still live in tennessee
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