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so my mom is supposed to come and spend Thanksgiving with us but my brothers wife who is a total which with a capital B...

her dinner was supposed to be at 1 and ours at 4 now she changed it to 4 so that mom couldn't come over here mom can't stand her parents because she went to school with them and they were really mean to her in high school and down there noses at her cause dad is Mexican what should mom do she is really upset how can I help her? I told her that if she gives into her manipulation it will never stop

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Your mom is going to have to be a mom and delegate her time between you and your brother. If I was her I would still show up at your brothers at 1 and show up at your house at 4. I am sorry you are going through this. I know the holidays can be hard especially getting "families" together but I want to remind you that YOU, your HUSBAND and your THREE precious boys are what matters the most this thanksgiving. No matter what your mom does, please my friend enjoy your day. :0)

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thank you my friend time are hectic you enjoy the time with james and your beautiful girls and that wonderful baby boy who is on his way eat lotsa Turkey mama this is my first Thanksgiving with just my family I made my first turkey!
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Awe!! Congratulations! I bet it is absolutely delicious because of all the love you put into it. :0)
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you too my friend happy Thanksgiving
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Well the day is over now but if I were the mom, and times were set for each home, I would abide by those times. I would not let the witch intimidate me.

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