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He's in love with another woman, what do I do?

6 months ago, I told him I wanted to take a break. We were having a lot of problems in our relationship with constant fighting and I was tired of dealing with it. I thought some time apart would make him appreciate me more, so I insisted even though he didn't want it at all. I moved out and left him alone completely. That completely backfired on me as he met another girl. He said he's fallen in love with her and can't go back to what we had after being with her. It hurts so bad that he's loving someone else and I don't know what to do or how to handle it. We were together 5 years and planning our wedding, why would he hurt me like this?

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Well, you are the one who wanted to "take a break." Think of how he felt when you moved out and left him alone?

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So take the rest or forget her.

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He didn't mean too I bet

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The constant fighting should have been your answer to this,sadly you can't go back,so start over,it's a big world out there. :)

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Leave his ass

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you left him alone, you abandon him and then blame him when he finds someone else? haha wow well good luck hes gone

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This kind of "I'll show you," attitude can certainly backfire, as you now know. It wasn't meant to be or he would not have found someone else so soon. Also, you said you were fighting all the time. Consider whether or not you just want someone you now can't have. There are some people destined to go through life only wanting something after they can't have it, be on guard that you aren't one of these people. This was the right thing to have happen, when you get that straightened out in your mind, you'll be relieved and be able to move on. This break was your idea, don't blame him, in fact, don't blame anyone--it was the Universe telling you this wasn't the right guy for you!

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I know your mouth say you want take a break but your heart don't want like that but the love not at all when happen the problem they should fighting if you fighting with he what you get a great stuff? To never get any stuff right ? Calm down and talk with he ahhh!! Act like you don't care about him teach him when the somone hurt him what is feeling when he want talk with you says : I'm very busy I'm tired want to go shopping so leave of me .. Make him get little angry .. Choose you want to do it or no? you still can have furtrue life the boy if we not die we can find the boy he love we and we love he and he can take care of our no matter she or face of it's glad is should be real love and real heart :) GL^^

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