Why do people go to church when they don't enjoy it?
No one is force to go other than kids. Where I'm from people just go to church, barely listen to what the preacher said then leave like they just COME OUT OF PRISON.
Don't want to go to church stay home and don't waste your time it's not like you learn anything that was important to you. If the problem is the service too long plan on staying an hour than BAIL!!!
If your wife or husband want to go and you don't convince them to do something church like at home which is more convenient since you don't have to waste money on gas.