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I'm having guy problems and I need help..

so I'm 14 and this 17 year old asked me out earlier and I told him to give me time to think. I heard he's like bad and smokes stuff. I really like him though but I don't know if I should. I'm so confused. some of my friends told me to say ya but others said to say no. I don't know what to do ...

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This happened to my friend and I mean exactly this older guy she wanted to date but was un sure since he smoked and had a bed Rep. asked her out and this is exactly what I said to her " You can date him if you want, but hang around people that smoke and sooner or later you'll be the one smoking. " So I obviously say no.

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Say no he's bad news. Or tell him to
Shape up. And he might be a liar just say no. Even if you feel like you really like him since he smokes you're going to get a bad reputation. And make sure it's true as well.

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You know, all girls do the same things in these situations. You say you want the good guy, but you really want the hot strong guy. You should say no if he isnt a good person

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Trust your initial instinct. If you are having doubts about this guy, then it's probably a bad idea to get involved with him.

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no no no he only wants one thing, trust me I've in this situation.

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This guy will try to take advantage over you, he's more experienced, and he's stronger than you. Have you ever noticed this guy before? If you haven't then you probably don't really care.

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Yeah we used to be good friends. But then he started smoking weed we stopped talking but I want to date him but then I don't cause he takes ever girl he dates virginity...I don't know like I'm having mixed emotions.
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Been there done that(sort of) do not do it. Make smart choices.
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This has basically happened to my friend. She did say yes and it didn't end up well in the slightest. Every one made up big rumors and made in of her. They called her some really mean names too... He wasn't good either. He kind of abused her. It really changed her. Be careful ok?

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Well when his birthday comes u can't date him so just move on and find guys ur age

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A big NO...because bad habits can rub off on you...find some on like you..and that wants stuff in life...you know? don't change that for some Guy...keep your good head on your shoulders...don't let anyone change that...;)

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NO NO NO you are 14 I'm thirteen and I understand that some 17 year old's are way hott !but I made myself a limit only two years older and that it! Anyways a virginity isn't something you can take back.. wait.. And I know you said nothing about virginity but guys all of them wan't sex and you are too young!

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haha no, ew that's like you dating an 11 year old, hes bad and will influence you to do bad things too, might even get u pegnant and leave... bad news SAY NOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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He sounds like bad news. And since you guys probably don't go to the same school since you're 14 and he's 17, he probably flirts with other girls at his school. It's a big maturity difference. He could influence you to do bad things with him and then before you know it, you'll be smoking too. Just wait until a nicer, better, and a guy your age asks you out, Trust me it'll be so much better.

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