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hellogoodby

My...bf said he wants 2 leave me, what do I do?

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Help him pack..

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Hi Slip! :-)
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Hi Tony :0)
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Works for me! Hey girl...;)
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Kookie!!! :0)
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I NEVER said to her end I ever. I always told hee how much she was loved n cherished . I love this girl with ally heart n soul.
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Sorry TDG.. Looks like you guys have a communication problem. She has the perception that you want to leave.. So.. A relationship that has communication issues, will end.. Always.. Unless you learn to communicate.
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So true Freud!!!
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Thanks Kookie! :0)
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Freud...where have you been??? Good to have you back!!!!!!!
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Move on. You're better off without him.

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I never gave up on her ever not even when she Cheated on me. I love her with all my heart . I don't why she feel this way.
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SHE cheated on you?... And then said that you want to leave?!?!?!? Aww naw.
All I got to say is... GOOD LUCK MAN.
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tell him adios and find a new bf

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I have been with her for 5- years. we just talked yesterday bouy marriage. I never ended anything. why woukd she do tthis
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don't know but she did. maybe looking for a excuse to kick you to the curb. have to ask her.
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You let him.

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I never ended it. I will alway love her
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Call his bluff, tell him "Well do it then". He'll probably crumble. OR, you could always do a preemptive strike and dump him first.

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Love the preemptive strive!! :0)
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Yes, always one step ahead!
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*strike.. Hahaha.
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Go with the preemptive strike!!!!
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this too hard on me. I never once tokd her it was over. I love her with all my heart
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Never hold on to a man who wants to walk away. If he says he wants out, he is not worthy of you. Sounds harsh perhaps but it is all there is. You deserve a man who walks towards you, not away from you. Remind yourself often and do not settle for less. Better to be happy alone than miserable with the wrong man!

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I never told her I wanted to leave her :(
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Don't hold on to something if you or the other person doesn't want it anymore. It will only get worse.

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I love her with every part of my BEING. I DONT understand why she posted such a question. we eve. planned in geting a new home n marriage in 2- yrs
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Well what you do is say well I can't make you stay and I don't want someone who doesn't want me so I wish you luck. Thanks for the fun we had.

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that's an answer I should give her for cheating on me. but u never left her ever. I love her
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There nothing u can really do if he want to break then let it be dont be sad u might find someone much more better and that loves u

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Yea Erick
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--- You Say ---- Thees The Door --- See Yourself Out ---- Do / or Don't Let The Door Hit You On Your Nass and Don't Come Back -

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she. I have been together for 5- -years. I told her how much I love her n we plan to marry. I never ended it
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Might be a Good Idea for You and Her --- if She Wants to Go then By All Means Don't hold Her Back --- or Both Will Be wishing You Hadn't Of --- Maybe Y'all Need Time Apart ---
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Call his bluff and say "ok..if that's what you want".I did and disappeared for 20 days from his life.I wouldn't return his mails,calls nothing.When I finally did 20 days later he was totally out of it and was begging me to return.

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I can understand how n why u did what u didm but I never ever ended us. I love her with all I am who I am. :)
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So you are the boyfriend?What is going on then?If you didn't end it then of course it's different from your case.
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i dnt think u should play games like that. if u want him then i think u should keep fighting, but if ur tired and u see no happy future ahead then drop his ass, pack his shit, and through him out. lend a helping hand. dont plat with his emotions becuase you'll end up playing with your own. its a stay or go thing with relationships. either fight for him and show your worth dealing with his shit or get tired get let go and be happy with someone slse or by yourself
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Let him.

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You said it!
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Ditto^. Hi!!
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Hia Kook and Zoe!
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Say goodbye And move on.

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Yep. Well said.
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I never ended us. I love her with all my heart. it grieves me deeply to read such a question from her ..
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I never said I want to leave u caity please don't think that CAITY I neved said u wanted to leave u ever. why do u feel such way!!!! we talked yesterday. what is going on. do u have another bf. I don't know of. what is up with u !!!!!

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Take a good long look at your life with this guy, remember this, every time you think you're about to loose something good, you're actually being redirected to something better.

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I agree,well said!!
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Can I get an amen!?
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Oooo, I like it :)
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Freud, amen!!!
Toallmyhoneys, thanks!!!
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I NEVER told her it was over. in fact las night I wrote her long love message on how she mean TO me n is cherished we been together for 3 years. know n each other for 5. she perfect. sadly she had cheated on me. before :(
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For crying in a bucket, why the heck are you on ASK? Don't you think these words would be better said to her in person?
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Like I said the first time, don't you think these words would be better said to her face rather than on ASK, I just left out the crying in a bucket part.
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I wish I could but were in a long distance relation. n she uses a text app in computer. I CANT text or call her. she makew all the contact .
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I wish you could talk to her too, I can tell it's causing you upset in your life. I hope you both can work this out. Good luck!!
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All You Gotta Say IS BYE.BIT*CH!!

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I never told her I wanted it over :( we been together for 3 years :(
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Hunny I Know how it Feel but dont want somebody that doesnt want you Hes full of BS
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I also told her I didn't want it over. I don't know why she feel I do. I love her with all my heart. she had other bf before while with me. I hope this isn't the case again. long distances be hard. but we even talked of marriage
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Troll...?
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Let him go...you can't keep something you never had...

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she always had me from day 1- . I love her she my soul mate. I cany undertsnd why she saying that question.
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Say ducezzzz!!!!

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dance he wasn't right for you

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well he n I worked it out. It was a miss understanding
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Ask yourself if you will be happy with always, waiting for him to leave you, because if you do not allow him to leave when he wants to, you will always be waiting for him to.

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Try to work something out.

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ask why and try to fix the problem.. don't just leave him and walk away and don't let him walk away.. hold on tight to him if u really love him.

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move on if he really loved you he wouldnt leave u

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maybe you just let him go, and tell him how he sucks anyway :)


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Rather have honesty. I was used way way too long. He knew he was stringing me along and it was tough to be attached emotionally. I think you will have a better perspective on men if they are honest and you are honest. Especially at the bf stage.

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Let him walk

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ask why.. and let him go.. anyway youre not he's mother. make him happy. and have a new BF better that your BF before:)

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