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How come I feel so lonely most of the time?

When I'm alone I tend to listen a lot of sad songs(love songs). I start to think about the past and start remembering my old memories. I think about what I should've done at that time. And some memories I remember how other people hurt me.

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Honey, you (or any of us) can't live our lives in the past. I don't know if you're a Christian or not, but even if not, this is wonderful advice to go by: "But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." Even if you're not a Christian, stopping at the word "prize" is great advice.
Another thing you HAVE to stop doing is listening to sad love songs. Music can affect your emotions SO deeply. It gets into your soul. Start listening to more upbeat music, music that makes you feel good, makes you tap your foot, makes you want to get up and dance. Right now, the music you're listening to is bring you down.
And old memories are just that...old. They're already done, over with. Go make more memories, sweetie, BETTER memories. Look at it as just starting life over if you have to. You may need to see a doctor and get some help with depression also. You may have some clinical depression, which is something you can't do anything about. You'll be in my prayers.

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Because one is the loneliest number that you'll ever do. Two can be as bad as one; it's the loneliest number since the number one

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dont live in the past....only live in the present enjoy it and make the future even better!! get active if you like love songs play and instrument like guitar so u can play them :-) it would be good to keep your mind focused in the music instead of the past.... who knows u might meet a good friend in class. sending positive vibes :-)

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