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Is it wrong to kiss someone who isn't your boyfriend?

My boyfriend has aways been kind and understanding. I don't always agree with him but I know he's very patient. we haven't kissed because he thinks we should wait. There another guy, he says he loves me very much and he wants us to kiss. He has insulted my boyfriend and has tried to get me to break up with him. I love them both....should I kiss him? I don't know what to do.

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Break up with your boyfriend and stay single. He deserves better treatment than that. And the other guy sounds like jerk.

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Match made in heaven if she went with the jerk don't you think?
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My boyfriend wouldn't let me break up with him even if I tried, that's why I like him because I feel like he actually cares.
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The fact that you considered all this shows you don't deserve him. However the jerk sounds like your personality type ._.
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eevee, that's not a nice thing to say. Breaking up with him would hurt him even more; why should she do that to him just because some jerk came out of nowhere and hurt him, and is trying to ruin things?

isderaprob, yeah there kinda is with what you said...there's nothing wrong with her asking about this. Maybe she feels scared and like this is out of her hands. Questions and curiosity and nervousness and fear dont make someone selfish.
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You can't love them both..if you do kiss him, your BF will eventually find out and it'll get ugly.

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B4 u kiss him think about which one loves u more who treats u betr bc if u turn around bc of tht then this guy could just turn out to be a jerk faced poo head

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HaHaHa XD poo head...HaHaHa!!!
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Well,the dude is ya bf,sooo...*FP*

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You can love them, but as a friend way to one of them. I have lots of friends that are boys that I like, but if I were to kiss them, it's be in a friendly way.

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Just follow your heart/gut (LOL) it will tell you the right thing to do. Works for me! Haha but I wouldn't kiss him the friend is bossy and controlling it sounds like. You should stay with your boyfriend he sounds really nice!

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I will, thanks
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Well, a boyfriend is a boyfriend. In my mind, you're pretty much asking if its okay to cheat. So.. No. Now, if you really love this other boy, then maybe you shouldn't have a boyfriend, because you can't decide which one you like more. If your current bf is okay with you seeing another boy, the. That's for you two to work out. Hope I helped :)

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If you like the other guy more breakup with your boyfriend first. If you like you boyfriend more don't break up! Simple as that! But make that decision before you think about kissing

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Yes it wrong to kiss another guy if dating one already but who do you like most ? Personally the patient one would be my choice because you can always rush him if you wanted but don't be to pushy just take a quick kiss like when saying bye an hi an it will start to fill very natural an then when it does start kissing more often ...I hope I explained that correctly (>///<) lol

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If you love the other guy then you dont love your boyfriend and vice vera and that would be cheeting

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I love my boyfriend a lot, but I hate seeing them fighting
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why dont you concentrate on your career instead of this 2boyfrnd melodrama!

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no. be loyal

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You have to respect your boyfriends values for him to respect yours. If he doesn't want to kiss yet, wait. If you kiss another guy, then that's called cheating. If you really love your boyfriend, wait for him.

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Don't do anything you'll regret...

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NO its NOT!

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its ok as long as you don't feel the same way you feel about him as you do about your bf

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you cant love two people. choose the second guy, because if you really loved the first you wouldn't have fallen for the second.

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well if you kiss the second guy and you feel sparks then you break up with your boyfriend because if you really loved him you wouldn't even be thinking about this other guy

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if you're already dating somebody you should not kiss another guy - your boyfriend will think you are cheating on him.

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never kiss another guy when your dating someone. your boyfriend sounds really sweet and who knows, the other guy might just be going after you for your body. Stay with your boyfriend

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damn. I hate the sound of that other guy. I believe you should stay with your boyfriend; don't dump him over some other guy who insults you and tries to tear you both apart. That isn't your boyfriend's fault that some jerk is trying to ruin everything; (sorry to sound so harsh, it's just that someone suggested you break up with him) you sound as if you and your boyfriend get along very well. Don't let that be ruined.

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