Let me ask you a question, why are you holding on to a person who treat you like... crap? When you start to feel bad or depressed get up and start doing nice things for other people, it will build you up, where he tore you down.
2 years ago
Last edited at 4:06PM on 12/6/2011
oh l feel so sorry for you. I know a girl who is like that. They guy she loves treats her like shes not even alive. l tried to help her by making him jealous. Everyone thinks were going out but its a cover. You should ask one of your guy friends to do the same...Maybe you'll fall for him like l fell for her...
I think you're asking a valid question, and the valid answer is for you to do some serious self-reflection and find out why you value yourself so little. It may be that you were treated poorly by your dad - and often seek the same from your boyfriends. Whatever it is - you sound smart enough to find the truth, deal with it, and make changes.
focus on yourself. Remind yourself every day of your strengths and unique gifts you possess. surround yourself with supportive people. strengthen your mind.. body.. and spirit. Exercise, read inspirational literature of others who have overcame difficulties, volunteer for an agency or group to help those that are going through difficult times and remember to be grateful for your blessings and know you possess beauty and strength and deserve to retreated with respect an lovingly. Abuse is never acceptable in any form. Work on believing in yourself again!!!!!! Being able to love unselfishly and unconditionally is a gift to others and for yourself. Know that you can survive this and learn this lesson well. You will make a much better choice next time but take the time to grieve and heal!!